Banggeng was salivating when he smelled the smell of meat in the yard, but when he heard his mother say that, he felt even sadder.
He seemed to suddenly think of something and said, "Mom, if you say that, then my grandma and I won't be able to go to dinner tomorrow."
Looking for someone in the 1960s There are not many opportunities to have a banquet, especially for children. The chances of finding a banquet are even less, because these days, it is good to have adults invited to banquets such as weddings and funerals. Children Unless they are close relatives, they will not be taken there under normal circumstances.
But this time is not special. His mother Qin Huairu is the matchmaker for Xu Damao who is getting married this time. According to this situation, Xu Damao has to invite his family over even if he is stingy.
In this case, I actually planned to have a big meal with my grandma tomorrow.
It was even said that Xu Damao had not decided on a time to get married, so he and his grandmother were thinking about how to have a big meal when Xu Damao got married.
I had been thinking about it for several days, but this happened. It was really a river of sadness.
Banggeng couldn't help crying when he thought of this. Why am I so miserable? When I get an opportunity to eat, I can't go.
How should Qin Huairu answer his son? The answer is yes, no, but the answer is yes, that is lying.
When Banggeng saw his mother not speaking, he immediately understood that this was true.
Banggeng was crying so hard at the moment, it was so sad that the listener was crying, crying with a sadness that was not commensurate with his age at such a young age.
You can imagine how difficult it was for a child to eat meat in the 1960s.
Even if Mrs. Jia Zhang loves her, it is impossible for Mr. Jia Zhang to conjure money out of thin air. With just the little coffin book that Mr. Jia Zhang has, he cannot always buy meat for Bangge. .
After all, the little money in Jia Zhang’s hand is indeed the money for his coffin to save his life. Therefore, although Jia Zhang loves sticks, she cannot always spoil him and let him eat every day. Meat, even a tooth sacrifice once or twice a month, Qin Huairu, a mother, would find a way to get some meat when she had such an opportunity.
So Bangge felt that it was unlikely that he would go directly to Xu Damao's house to have a wedding this time. This time, he missed the opportunity to have a big meal. You can imagine what he felt in his heart. The sadness cannot be described in words. It is estimated that even if Banggeng is given Yunnan Baiyao, it will not be able to undo the trauma deep in his heart. < /p>
Even if today’s situation is like this and Xu Damao’s grandson doesn’t bring us anything, he can’t let us go to the banquet when he gets married tomorrow. Since he will let us go to the banquet, let’s have a great time. Dayton is also veryA good result. I didn’t expect that we wouldn’t even have a chance to eat while we were in the hospital.
This is simply very sad, but you don’t have to worry about Banggeng. We really don’t have time to eat it when Xu Damao gets married, and the doctor doesn’t allow it, but it doesn’t mean that we won’t be able to eat it in the future. Arrived.
For example, there is He Yuzhu, who is about to get married. I heard that He Yuzhu was going to get married before Xu Damao, or on the same day as Xu Damao, but I didn’t expect He Yuzhu. It seems that my father-in-law has a small problem, and he went to the south to deal with the problem.
It is said that it can be regarded as a business trip, and the good guy will be reimbursed for going back and forth. This kind of thing is a beautiful job. No matter what, it is said that people don’t have to sit on a chair on the train at all. What is that called? Come and take a seat. Anyway, this time I am going to lie down and take a nap on the living room, so I will go directly to the south.
How convenient this is. So it is said that He Yuzhu was also getting married on the 18th, but we missed a lot this time. It seems that we will not be able to have a big meal after the wedding, but if He Yuzhu wants to get married, we may still have a certain chance. of.
Even if we don’t have the chance to go to Xu Damao’s wedding banquet tomorrow this time, when we wait for He Yuzhu’s wedding, we can still have a big meal. ”
No matter how you say it, whether you say Jia Zhang is cunning or greedy, what they say makes sense.
But who knows at this time, it’s okay that Jia Zhang didn’t say that. After saying this, Banggeng cried even harder.
Banggeng cried and said, “Grandma, you forgot, if it’s Xu Damao. It would be better if he gets married. After all, my mother is her matchmaker, and he is my uncle. If I go to their house for a meal, it will be nothing. If our whole family goes, he can't say anything. .
But you want to say that He Yuzhu asked us to have a banquet when she got married? Is it possible?
Based on his relationship with our family, in such a situation, he said please I'll go with you, do you believe this?
This is absolutely impossible. He originally disliked us and asked us to go. That would be like the sun coming from the west tomorrow. came out.
If he invited my mother to go, maybe it would still be the same thing.
But will He Yuzhu invite me to invite you? That is absolutely impossible. In He Yuzhu’s eyes, we two are simply a thorn in the flesh.
Besides, you are not related to our family when you go to a banquet. If you go to a banquet, you are not allowed to take the share money. When that guy He Yuzhu gets married, we will get the share money. Is he willing to let us? It's hard for the two of us to tell. ”
Actually, there are a few people in the courtyard who don’t know that the relationship between Jia Zhang and Biao Ge and He Yuzhu is very bad
After all, what Jia Zhang and Banggan did some time ago Things are really annoying,Anyone would be unhappy, let alone He Yuzhu, who has always had a bad temper.
In fact, there is a certain truth to what Banggeng said. Xu Damao will definitely invite his own family when he gets married. After all, he is a matchmaker and is related to many Meng families, so It's okay to go out for a meal as a family.
But if He Yuzhu gets married, he will hate himself at this time and feel that it would be inappropriate if he brings another family there.
But the problem is that if adults think about such a thing very clearly, it doesn't matter. Qin Huairu does not take this matter seriously.
But this matter is actually a joke. If Jia and Zhang consider it, from their perspective, it is impossible to go to He Yuzhu’s wedding banquet. Even if they go, they will have to pay for it. If you don't take part in the meal and eat for free, unless you are a matchmaker or a relative, most people still can't do it for free.
I have to say that in Jia Zhang’s view, Banggeng is still a relatively shrewd type, knowing that going to outsiders’ banquets requires getting a share of the money
But if this matter is changed to Qin Huairu's words, as a mother of Banggeng, she naturally knows what her son is like.
My son is smart, but it doesn’t mean that Bangge can think of what he just said.
Therefore, at this moment, Qin Huairu felt a little pity. It seemed to her that it was impossible for Bangge to think of such a thing.
Behind this matter, there must be a certain amount of reasoning ability and a certain purpose for an adult to say something like this to Banggeng. Otherwise, his son’s IQ would be impossible. So high.
If his son really had such an IQ, then at this time, studying would already be at the forefront, and he would not have to worry about it. Teacher Ran Qiuye would not ask his parents to ask him to study again and again. .
It can be seen that these are not the ideas of his son Banggeng, so at this time Qin Huairu wondered who his youngest son was learning skills from.
At this time, Qin Huairu said a little unhappily, "Banggeng, tell me the truth. Who taught you these words? It is not a good boy to gossip about people behind their backs. Remember this in the future." Don’t call him He Yuzhu. If you want to call him uncle, call him Zhu Zhu. Otherwise, I won’t stop him from beating you because of this.”
Banggeng was a little scared at this time, although He Yuzhu was not at home at this time. It's very possible that he would come over, but after hearing He Yuzhu's name, Banggeng did feel frightened. After all, he had been torn apart by He Yuzhu's hands more than once, so he always had to remember a little longer.
So Bangge immediately said, "Actually, it was Xu Damao who told me. Xu Damao said that He Yuzhu would not invite so many banquets when he got married, so many people would not be able to go. We will pay for each household every month." Just one person can do it
So I heard from Xu Damao that the information this time is just that.What happened was that when He Yuzhu got married, no matter what he did, he decided to get married in front of He Yuzhu.
So actually Xu Damao was very happy. He even chatted with me for a while when I was discharged from the hospital.
That's actually the case. ”
But in fact, Xu Damao took this time to instill in Banggan and Jia Zhang that He Yuzhu was everyone’s common enemy.
Anyway, Xu Damao was here to talk. , the only purpose is to say that He Yuzhu is not very good. If you have anything to do, you should ask yourself
Hearing this, Qin Huairu said angrily, "Xu Damao is all nonsense. Don't do it anymore." If you just listen to him casually, that guy will be difficult to deal with. When the time comes, you will suffer a loss in his hands, and your mother may not be able to help you.
Of course, it is not very likely that He Yuzhu will invite you two to get married, but it is not your turn to worry about it.
You don’t need to worry about him. Just take good care of your body and then it will be fine. As for tomorrow, that is just an exception.
The doctor told you not to eat meat or fish for a week. Anyway, you will remember it yourself in the end. Otherwise, if something goes wrong, don’t blame me for being rude. ”
Now that Qin Huairu is slowly becoming more assertive at home, he has also seen clearly that anyway, the relationship between himself and his mother-in-law, Jia Zhang, is not to mention how peaceful they are, but at least they can To maintain the superficial peace.
After some probing by Qin Huairu, he finally understood that his mother-in-law, Jia Zhang, was actually worried that he would marry someone else and then cheat on others. Leave it to him. In this case, it is really impossible for him to support three children by himself.
So now Qin Huairu is slowly starting to become a 9th-level white-eyed wolf master. Such a positional impact.
Qin Huai said that both Jia Zhang and Guang Guang felt empty in their hearts.
At this time, it was even more exciting. He was very sad, because he knew that his mother basically said the same thing at home, and it was her mother who often made the decision on all matters.
This time, his mother basically told him to go to He Yuzhu's place. Don't think about it.
Maybe Qin Huairu herself felt that what she said was a little bit fierce, which was somewhat inappropriate, after all, she was facing two people. The patient who was just discharged has not yet fully recovered.
So Qin Huairu thought about it and said, "Actually, I know what you two are thinking. It's unexpected that you both want to have a meal at Paojia." , There is no way, who gave you diarrhea, so in such a situation, it is impossible for you to go to the banquet at Xu Damao's house.
But you are thinking about going to He Yuzhu. I think it is impossible for this guy to have a banquet. ”
At this time, Jia Zhang was a little dissatisfiedHe said angrily, "Why is it impossible? Didn't Zhuzi get married soon?
I heard that he almost got married on the 18th, but in the end, he might have been delayed due to some matters at his wife's family. We will get married tomorrow on the 18th, otherwise there will be two weddings in our hospital tomorrow, which is not certain.
But this time, He Yuzhu was not able to do it tomorrow. It is said that he had to wait for his boss to go to the southern office. After Director Luo comes back, he will decide on a date to get married. But think about Lou Xiao'e's identity. He is the daughter of a capitalist.
Although his father is considered a patriotic businessman now, who is he? She is the daughter of a capitalist, which is quite attractive.
So in such a situation, if Lou Xiao'e and He Yuzhu get married, I guess He Yuzhu wants to keep a low profile, so in this case. At this time, what you think may not necessarily be what I think. If He Yuzhu doesn't make too much of a fuss, he can at most just invite a few new friends over.
Then you two. What are you going to do?
Don’t talk about you two, it’s hard to say whether I will be invited there.”
Anyway, Qin Huairu said so much, in short, just one sentence. Xu Damao and his cousin Qin Jingru are getting married, so you won't be able to enjoy the banquet.
Well, He Yuzhu probably won’t invite many people to his wedding. It’s not very likely that you and your grandson will go together, so don’t have any illusions. ”
I want to go to a wedding banquet without paying for it. I want such a good thing.
And some wedding banquets are not just because you have money and follow the family.
When you get married within 60 years, another very important thing is to welcome the bride.
In other words, how do you welcome the bride in a more elegant and dignified way?
Of course, the people in charge of this matter are naturally the three elders in the courtyard. They are in charge of their own affairs. In fact, the biggest role of these three elders is to do this kind of thing that is difficult for each household to complete. It's like the kind of talker on the streets in rural areas.
For example, Qin Huairu's second uncle, Qin Ershu, plays a similar role in the streets of his village. This time, he held a general meeting of the hospital. Then tonight, we have already informed you early.
In fact, even if we didn’t notify you, everyone should know very well that someone is getting married tomorrow, so they have to make a reservation today. There are certain rules for such customs, such as who comes from the family and who is responsible for what procedures when getting married.
Although Jianguo has been established, many of the old rules are still there. It’s not that important, after all, it’s a new trend. For example, the bad habits of brothel managers with three wives and four concubines must be overthrown.
Similarly, there are not as many stereotypes as in ancient times when it comes to marriage. , but in fact some necessary rules still need to be in place, and the elderly must come forward to organize them. If they are willing to do so in the futureIt must be difficult to complete this kind of procedure, but if an old man comes forward and a respected studio person comes forward, it will become easier.
This is why even in rural areas, this custom is still retained. Every household helps each other. This is also why the family ties between neighbors in rural areas are very important. Sometimes they go out at home. I dare to throw the key to the neighbor across the door.
Nowadays, how many people living in high-rise buildings dare to throw the keys of their homes to their neighbors casually
Anyway, when the courtyard meeting is being held, this Once, Xu Damao's performance was quite good. Several delegates who came to the conference ate peanuts and melon seeds.
There are definitely peanuts and melon seeds for weddings these days, but it’s hard to say how many.
Xu Damao also got a batch of peanuts and melon seeds through his connections this time. Today, when discussing his marriage, Xu Damao, even if he is being stingy, will give some to everyone no matter what.
What is rare about Xu Damao this time is that he is not stingy, because he knows very well in his heart that if he wants to get married smoothly, he cannot do without the help of the people in the courtyard. The three uncles are the backbone, and the other old and young people are the backbone. , at least to help.
So everyone dare not say that you should eat those peanuts and melon seeds freely, but everyone has at least a handful of peanuts and melon seeds in their hands for you to eat melon seeds and so on.
And there are teapots and teacups above where the three uncles are sitting, and they are actually tied with green tea.
If other people are thirsty, if they think they are relatively respectable in the yard, they can go and get a drink.
For the other elderly people in the courtyard, Xu Damao poured tea for those he found. This was also the rule.
As the head of the family, Xu Damao must take good care of him. Even Xu Damao's father, who was always in the yard and showed up like this, was sitting aside.
Of course, first of all, Dad Xu said the opening remarks at this time: "Thank you to all the neighbors. Tomorrow is my son's wedding day, and we can all get together. Now we are grateful. What's wrong with the greeting? , please bear with me and bear with me. If I want to talk about this, I would like to ask three uncles to preside over it. Now we will invite the first uncle to speak. "Please remember: Free and fastest update without anti-theft.