After helping Jia Erhu move all the luggage to the master bedroom, he returned to the living room.
Chen Lingyan opened the zippers of all the luggage. Almost all of them were clothes, shoes and bags, as well as a laptop and a netbook.
When Wen Ruyu helped Jia Erhu take out his clothes from the cabinet and was about to go to the second bedroom, Chen Lingyan shyly whispered, "Thank you, sister-in-law."
Wen Ruyu smiled. , first carried the clothes to the second bedroom and hung them up, and then returned to the master bedroom. While helping Chen Lingyan pack the clothes, he said, "Er Hu has just been discharged from the hospital, and his body may not have fully recovered. You should pay more attention to him.
It’s best not to sleep in late in the morning. If you can make breakfast for him, make breakfast. If you can’t make breakfast, go out and buy it.” When buying breakfast, Chen Lingyan herself had difficulty getting up, but she still nodded.
Wen Ruyu then said, "This man, sometimes when he gets interested, he seems to be born to cook, so you don't have to worry about cooking.
They usually I don’t like washing clothes, but I like cleaning, so you must develop the habit of cleaning and washing clothes.”
Chen Lingyan nodded vigorously.
Wen Ruyu continued, "Generally, men hate women being wordy. In fact, it's not that they don't like talking to women, it's just that they have a special characteristic.
When he wants to talk to you, your words The more you say, the more excited he gets.
If he doesn’t want to talk, even a word is too much for him.”
Chen Lingyan asked dumbfounded, “The question is how do I know? When do you like me to talk and when do you not like me to talk?"
"It's very simple, it depends on his face." Wen Ruyu said, "Men are usually happy. If he is happy today, you can say more. You can even lose your temper.
Not only is he not angry, but he will try to comfort you.
If he is gloomy, he is either thinking about a problem or having trouble outside. If you take the trouble to ask him what's wrong, he will even want to kill you.
Whenever you encounter this kind of situation, you'd better do whatever you want. It’s like he doesn’t know anything.
If he wants to talk to you, he will naturally find you and talk about it. At that time, you can start talking about it.
Many women don’t know this. Just like our colleagues, they always say that they see their husbands frowning when they go to work, and they don’t say anything when asked. Instead, they find me verbose. This is the reason. ”
Chen Lingyan frowned and said, "Sister-in-law, thank you for teaching me so much, but what you taught me was how to get along with him.
The problem is that I don’t even know if he will accept me now, you "Should I take the initiative or wait for him to take the initiative?"
Wen Ruyu asked, "No, you don't even know this. Don't be angry if my sister-in-law says a word.", you had a very good relationship when you were in the hospital, and I even found you sleeping on the same hospital bed.
Why do you suddenly look like you are meeting him for the first time?"
Chen Lingyan said with a tearful voice, "At that time, he was pursuing me. , and I was so angry at Ding Gang. At that time, I just wanted to vent my anger, and didn’t say that I must fall in love with Erhu, so I was quite relaxed.
It’s different now.
When he came to Ding Gang last time, I chose to side with Ding Gang. This time I took the initiative to come to him. Did he think that Ding Gang didn’t want me anymore, so I Falling in love with him
I know that he has a strong self-esteem and will never tolerate others saying that he is a rag collector.
Just because I want to get along well with him, I am a little concerned about gains and losses.
I took the initiative to attack him because I was worried that he would say that I was a promiscuous person and had a bad character.
If I wait for him to attack, I am afraid that he will think that I am a cold person, or that he is still thinking about Ding Gang and does not look down on him at all. "
Wen Ruyu said, "Sister, I ask you two questions, and you must tell me honestly. "
Chen Lingyan said, "Sister-in-law, you ask, no matter what the question is, I will never lie. "
"Are you really still a virgin now?"
Chen Lingyan puffed up her chest. "It's true. If sister-in-law doesn’t believe it, go to the hospital with me tomorrow for a check-up."
"No. "Wen Ruyu smiled and asked again, "You have really decided to be with Jia Erhu. Even if your family objects, you will never regret it."
Chen Lingyan said, "Ding Gang is indeed me." The biggest obstacle to making a new choice is that he is so handsome and his family conditions are so good.
But you know, I went out with him some time ago, and I found that as long as he knows a beautiful girl in Haicheng, others will know him.
And when I was with him in a coffee shop or teahouse, other girls came over in groups to say hello to him, completely ignoring my existence.
The more I think about it, the scarier it becomes.
In addition, he and Xiao Jie obtained a marriage certificate, but he made a promise to me here.
What if I really marry him in the future and he has a lot of women outside?
I made this matter clear to my parents. Although my parents think It's a pity that he supported me in leaving him. "
Wen Ruyu smiled and said, "Supporting you to leave Ding Gang and accepting Erhu are two different things. Have you told your parents about Erhu's situation, especially the matter of his release after serving his sentence?"
Chen Lingyan shook her head, "I didn't say that. But I feel that as long as Erhu treats me well and we get together, my parents won't say anything. "
Wen Ruyu said, "You can't say that. We are all ordinary people, and I can understand your parents' mentality.
If you want to find a boyfriend, even if the young man’s family conditions are poor and he is ugly,Yes, as long as you like it, your parents will not object.
But if this young man has a criminal record, even like Erhu, he will not be simply re-education through labor or detention, but will be directly sentenced to 6 years in prison.
To be honest, if I were your parent, if my daughter wanted to find such a person in the future, I would definitely disagree. "
Chen Lingyan felt that Wen Ruyu was right, but she still didn't want to tell her parents about it too early.
"Sister-in-law, I understand what you said, and I will definitely follow you as soon as possible. Parents talk about this. I want to know now, regarding Erhu, do you think I should be more proactive or passive?"
Wen Ruyu said, "I must be both proactive and passive. "
Chen Lingyan thought to herself, what are you saying? Activeness and passivity are inherently contradictory. How can I do both at the same time?
Wen Ruyu then said, "Proactively care about him." In daily life, as for emotional matters, it is better to be more passive.
As long as you touch him and he has you in his heart, he will not be able to help but touch you. ”
Chen Lingyan said “Oh”, “Thank you, sister-in-law, I understand.” ”
Seeing her like that, Wen Ruyu felt both relieved and a little disappointed.
I thought Chen Lingyan was unreliable and just acted on impulse. If that was the case , they will not be together for a long time, and she will have a chance.
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