Chen Lingyan's crying made Jia Erhu find her even more cute.
However, in Jia Erhu's eyes, Chen Lingyan is just a very beautiful and lovely girl next door. If he wants to become his wife, he thinks Wen Ruyu is the most suitable.
If he really had to tell him how Wen Ruyu was suitable, he wouldn't be able to explain why, it was just a feeling.
Seeing that Chen Lingyan was convulsing from crying, Jia Erhu leaned over, kissed her deeply, and stroked her body with both hands. After she calmed down completely, he said, "Ling Yan." , can we talk calmly?"
Chen Lingyan wiped away her tears and nodded.
Jia Erhu said, "Actually, in my mind, you have always been a very cute girl. Just like you have impressed me time and time again, I believe you must have been impressed by me too. "
Chen Lingyan pouted and looked at Jia Erhu with aggrieved eyes, wondering if you kicked me again
Jia Erhu asked, "But have you ever noticed, No matter you or I, we have not thought about how we will live in the future
In other words, we have not made any mental preparations for our future marriage and family life. We hug and hug each other every day, and we love each other. There is no problem.
If we really pay attention to the daily necessities, or even face the future children, we don’t understand anything.”
Chen Lingyan retorted, “No one knows anything before getting married. Do you understand this? The boat will be straight at the bridge. When we get married in the future, everything will be clear."
"Really?" Jia Erhu asked, "If we get married tomorrow, tell me. How should we live?"
Chen Lingyan really never thought about this problem. She blinked at Jia Erhu, thought for a while and said, "How others live is how we live."
Jia Erhu smiled and said, "I would say that we are not ready yet. So what we need now is more contact, more understanding, more communication, and even more comparison.
The so-called more Comparison means getting in touch with the opposite sex around us more while we are still young.
In your eyes now, you will only compare me with Ding Gang, but in your life, there is definitely more than just one. It's just me and Ding Gang. There may be other men who are better and more suitable for you, but they either haven't appeared yet or have been ignored by you.
In the past, when you were in love with Ding Gang, you seemed to have no worries about food and clothing. In fact, it was Ding Gang who confined you to a very small area.
For a long time, you only judged a man based on his family's wealth, so you felt that Ding Gang was you. The only choice.
Even knowing that he was cheating on you and playing with your feelings, you didn’t even think about moving on and just sulking alone at home until I showed up. ” >
Chen Lingyan suddenly said, "This proves that we are destined."
Jia Erhu said, "We are indeed destined, but this does not mean that you are not destined to others.
After graduating from college, you stayed at home and never went out.
In fact, according to my current conditions, I can also treat you like Ding Gang. I will treat you today, marry you tomorrow, wait for you to have children from the day after tomorrow, and completely cut you off from the outside world. contact.
In that case, you will never meet other men except me, and you may miss many men who are better than me, more suitable for you, and more destined for you. "
Chen Lingyan's neck stiffened. "I don't mind."
"But I do," Jia Erhu said. "You are immersed in love now and feel that I am the only one in the world." A man worthy of your reliance, you are willing to be a housewife and give birth to children for me.
One or two years is fine, but 10 or 20 years
The monotonous, dull and boring life will sooner or later make you tired. If by that time, you meet A better man than me, and this man even loves you more than me, you will regret it.
You may even cheat because you regret it. In that case, it will be a disaster for us. "
"I won't"
Jia Erhu smiled and said, "Maybe you won't, but the same thing may happen to me." If I meet a girl who is younger and more beautiful than you, and I support her outside, and one day she wants to occupy the magpie's nest, what will you do?"
Chen Lingyan pouted, pitifully Said, "I believe you wouldn't do that."
Jia Erhu kissed her again, "How many cheating families are there now? When they first started a family, no one thought that they would cheat.
We are not afraid of not knowing the goods, but we are afraid of comparing goods.
I have just been released from prison, and you have been imprisoned by Ding Gang for several years. We don’t know other men and women very well.
Once as life continues and we come into contact with more and better men and women, we will start to regret in silent comparison.
Once there is an opportunity to make up for the regret caused by regret, we will all want to try. "
Chen Lingyan asked, "After talking for a long time, what do you mean?"
Jia Erhu said, "We are still young, so don't confine yourself to family life prematurely. You should put your career first, that's why I asked you to go out to work.
The reason why I hope you take the civil service exam is that after you enter the system, you can come into contact with more and better men.
When you have contact, understanding and comparison, and feel that the one who is most suitable for you is me, then we are truly destined, and only after we come together can we grow old together. "
Chen Lingyan shook her body cutely, "We are young, but your sister-in-law is not young. She will definitely be in a hurry to marry you.
Just like what you said, after I found out that you were the most suitable person for me, you became someone else’s husband, and I couldn’t go.Die!"
Jia Erhu smiled and said, "Let me tell you again, she is not my sister-in-law. Besides, my relationship with her is not as close as we are, so it would be impossible for us to get married so early. "
Chen Lingyan pouted and said, "Who are you kidding? You wanted to have sex with me just a few days after we met. She is a married person and doesn't care about those things at all. I'm afraid you would have Just fucked her.
Otherwise, you wouldn’t suddenly introduce to your mother that she is your girlfriend. "
Jia Erhu explained, "The situation is really not what you imagined. If I really fall in love with her, do you think she will allow you to live with me?
If I guessed correctly, she must have taught you how to capture my heart."
Chen Lingyan was startled, "Emma, I'm so angry, your sister-in-law, Teacher Wen is really She taught me something."
"So, if I really fell in love with her, would she do that?"
Chen Lingyan frowned, "Then what do you mean? You found your biological mother and didn’t tell me, but you called her over and introduced her to your face as your girlfriend, and she didn’t deny it. She and your mother were as close as if they were mother and daughter.” Please remember to bookmark the latest website. To find and add books for free, you can join QQ group 887805068