Jia Erhu said, "Because I saw you don't have a bag."
Cao Yadan blinked again and didn't say anything, but he was thinking about the reason. If I don't have a bag, just buy it. There are so many people in the world who don’t have bags, don’t you think everyone will buy one?
Jia Erhu then said, “Some people don’t buy what they need, but what they see. What others have, you want to have, and it must be better than others.
Let’s talk about this bag you girls use. At your current age, you don’t actually carry this kind of small bag. Yes, if you have this hobby, especially when you are resting or going out for a visit, carrying this small bag can also serve as an embellishment.
In other words, this small bag should be useful. It’s optional.
It’s not a good idea to carry a small bag like this when you are in school.
But when you go out to do errands with us, this small bag can also improve your taste and appearance. Maturity.
Originally, I could buy you something more expensive, or even go to a brand store and buy a brand bag that costs 10,000 to 20,000 yuan.
The reason why I just did that. I didn’t buy the most expensive one, and I even paid half the price back to her. I just want to tell you one thing. When we buy something, we must first see if we need it, and secondly, buy the right one as well as the expensive one.”
Cao Yadan chuckled, "Just tell me, no matter what you play, just buy the right ones and not the expensive ones. Don't you have to pay that kind of IQ tax?"
You have been going around for a long time, but you don't know. I thought you didn't have money, or that you were reluctant to spend money, but you made such nonsense."
Jia Erhu also smiled, "Yadan, you are my mother's goddaughter now. It turns out you are." She is my adopted sister, and among other things, I am absolutely willing to spend tens of thousands of dollars to buy you a bag.
The reason why I didn’t do that, and I also took this opportunity to express my thoughts. , mainly want to tell you one thing, that is, as your adopted brother, I will do my best to help you when you need it most.
My help to you will only be the best. It’s to help you solve your difficulties, not to show off in front of others.”
Cao Yadan tilted her head and asked, “Are we just sworn brothers and sworn sisters?”
Jia Er. Hu smiled and said, "This is another question. Let's discuss it again when we have the opportunity. What I want to tell you today, no matter how successful you are in the future, how much money you can make, or whether you marry a very rich man." Husband, you should live in your own happiness, not in the envy of others.
Envy is often the source of jealousy and hatred. Once you arouse the envy of others, distance will arouse everyone's envy. Jealousy, hatred, and even anger are not far away."
Cao Yadan nodded, "But I have never thought of making others envious and jealous. I just don't want to be looked down upon by others."
p>Jia Erhu smiled and said, "No one in this world will look down on you because you are really bad. If you are ugly, poor, and still in the countryside,For girls, most people will only sympathize and pity you.
If you feel that someone is looking down on you now, it is because you are prettier than others, or because you have rejected other people's advances, so they will find ways to attack and belittle you.
You are a beautiful rural girl who has passed the university through hard work. Others really have nothing to disparage you. They will only say that you are from the countryside and your family is poor.
But you mistakenly believe that because you come from the countryside and your family is poor, you are inferior to others.
Actually, you don’t understand that anyone who criticizes your background is those who are not as good as you, or even those who don’t work as hard as you.
For example, people in society now, as long as they have strength, will admire and respect me.
Only those cowards who can't do anything to me, or even see me like a mouse to a cat, will call me a country bumpkin behind my back.
So whether it is you or me, there is no need to take those people seriously, and there is no need to confirm anything to them.
Look at Zhao Xuerui, not only does she not look down on you, she has become your good friend, and she is always trying to protect you from anyone. "
Cao Yadan nodded first, then suddenly felt something was wrong. He frowned and asked, "Do you mean Zhao Xuerui is prettier than me?"
Jia Erhu smiled. “I mean, she’s more confident than you are, and I’d like you more if I didn’t have a girlfriend. "
Cao Yadan smiled, but not very happily.
She felt that Jia Erhu was comforting herself. Ever since Jia Erhu just mentioned Zhao Xuerui, she You know, in Jia Erhu's mind, Zhao Xuerui must be better-looking than himself.
If Wen Ruyu were not his girlfriend, he would definitely pursue Zhao Xuerui instead of himself, which would hurt Cao Yadan's self-esteem.
p>However, Cao Yadan is not jealous of Zhao Xuerui. Even if she is not confident, she still knows.
"In addition," Jia Erhu said, "Once your classmate asks you how much this bag costs. , just say it’s a few dozen yuan, don’t tell the actual price. "
Cao Yadan asked puzzledly, "Why?"
Jia Erhu explained, "Most people in this world can't tell the truth, they can only tell lies." But it's the same lie. People who are confident and people who lack confidence tell different things.
Just talk about your bag. A person who lacks self-confidence will only tell others that this bag cost thousands because she is afraid that others will look down on her.
Only someone who is not short of money and is confident will tell the price at a low price to prevent others from thinking that she looks down on others.
If your classmates are all from the countryside and you quote a high price, not only will you not win the envy of others, but you will also attract hatred, and others will stay farther and farther away from you in the future. "
Cao Yadan looked at Jia Erhu in surprise, "Have you ever studied psychology? Why do you know the psychology of my roommates and classmates?"
Jia Erhu smiled and said, "Don't forget, I am also a poor person. I don't know what the poor really think. It's okay for everyone to be poor together, but whoever is rich is our enemy."
< p>Cao Yadan smiled "puff" and touched Jia Erhu's shoulder with her head "How are you?""Why"
"I won't tell you"
< p>Seeing Cao Yadan's innocent and cute shy expression, Jia Erhu's heart skipped a beat.He secretly prayed in his heart for such a lovely girl, and really hoped that she could live in happiness all her life
If anyone hurts her, God will not tolerate it
Not far away There happens to be a small late-night snack market nearby, with many stalls set up on the roadside.
They came to a barbecue stall and saw Cao Yadan a little embarrassed. Jia Erhu said, "Just order whatever you want to eat. There is no need to be reserved in front of me."
Cao Yadan is shy. Jia Erhu asked politely, "What do you like to eat?"
Jia Erhu said, "I'm not afraid of your jokes, because my family was poor when I was young. I had never had barbecue and I didn't know what was delicious.
I will eat whatever you order. Don’t save money for me. If you save money for me, you are denying me good food.”
Cao Yadan’s eyes lit up and she glanced at it. Everything on the stall seems to be delicious. Please remember to collect it, the latest and fastest website without anti-theft, free to find books and add books, you can join the qq group 887805068