Wen Ruyu smiled and said, "You think these people are ordinary people. Just saying a word can scare everyone.
To be honest, sitting with them, I can feel them. Powerful aura.
Although I haven’t met their eyes face to face, I can feel from the corner of their eyes that they can see into everyone’s heart.
< p>Even if there is a flash of hesitation in your heart, I believe it will not escape their eyes.They are all over 50 years old and have been in leadership positions at all levels for many years. I have seen it before, and I have never encountered anything before. I am a person who has seen the big world."
Jia Erhu laughed, "It seems that you really want to be a thief. You are a typical thief with a guilty conscience." They see it so powerfully, have you ever thought about what kind of existence you are in their eyes?
I don’t know anything else. Anyway, I know very well that in the official career, it can be said that the first year of the official career is
Those with lower positions are always respectful when they see those with higher positions.
No matter how powerful they are, aren’t they all so old and they hold local posts? Cadres. You are so young, and you are in a directly affiliated organization, and you have been recommended to study. I am afraid that in addition to admiration and admiration, they are more frightened than you.
Remember, you have been standing on the podium. Just treat them as your students.
As long as you are confident and have a good temperament, plus you have the background of being directly under the agency, I am sure that you will. If you ask them anything, they will tell you.
But if they ask you, if you say it is a secret, they will all shut up. ”
Wen Ruyu thought Jia Erhu said it. It makes sense, and he suddenly became more confident, but he said disdainfully, "Tch, it seems like you are just like an official, you know everything."
Jia Erhu said confidently, "People I have the same mind and the same reason. Although I have not spent a day in the official career, aren't all people in the official career human beings?
People all have a common characteristic, that is, they bully the weak and fear the strong. On the one hand, they tend to follow the trend, but on the other hand, they are complacent.
So no matter who you are facing, you must ignore their age, occupation and status. If they are a man, treat them as a man, and if they are a woman, treat them as a man. As a woman, you can see the strengths and weaknesses of all men and women and make use of them."
Although Jia Erhu is not old, his life experience is not rich. , but the people and things he has experienced are enough to make him mature.
Especially after having been in prison for several years, and having met all kinds of leaders and women, I still have a lot of experience in human nature.
Even though Wen Ruyu is a lecturer and is engaged in the profession of teaching and educating people, those are just words on paper. When it comes to social experience, she is really not as good as Jia Erhu.
Wen Ruyu is also a thoughtful person, and she can quickly realize that Jia Erhu’s point of view is absolutely correct.After writing it down silently, he retorted, "You are such a social person. What do you mean by taking advantage? It's so philistine, so terrifying, and so destructive of people's outlook."
Jia Erhu explained, "According to grammar In terms of word modification, utilization is a derogatory word, but from the perspective of human nature and real life, the word utilization actually expresses the relationship between people most appropriately.
Through another person, whether it is passing a word, doing something, or even asking for directions on the road, these behaviors are actually taking advantage of others, whether they are using others or being used. Someone who is used by others actually shows that he has certain connections and social connections, and also shows that he has certain abilities.
Otherwise, he cannot use others, and he is not even qualified to be used by others. ”< /p>
Wen Ruyu smiled, "You are quite awesome. A person who has not graduated from high school actually teaches a university lecturer the philosophy of life.
No wonder you want to build a private university. You Do you want to start a topic on philosophy of life, and then bring a group of graduate students to study for master's and doctoral degrees?" Jia Erhu also smiled and said, "Don't forget, you are not humble. Our relationship, apart from being a university lecturer and a high school dropout, is that of a loving couple.
According to our tradition, when a woman is married, she follows the hen, her father at home, and her husband when she gets married.
In a word, don’t be self-righteous, listen to your husband.”
Hearing what he said, Wen Ruyu just smiled bitterly, thinking that it would be better if you were really my husband< /p>
When Jia Erhu saw that she was silent, he immediately realized that his "husband" had touched her sore spot. In fact, Jia Erhu did it on purpose, because it could lead to his next topic.
"By the way, wife," Jia Erhu said, "I have thought about it. After you finish your studies and are assigned to a new job, we will hold a wedding."
Wen Ruyu smiled bitterly, "Stop making trouble. You made it very clear that day about the various stakes. There is no need for us to ruin our reputation and regret for the rest of our lives just for temporary happiness.
Besides, that's not the case. Is it just a piece of paper?
As long as the two hearts are in harmony and the two are happy, everything else doesn't matter."
Jia Erhu said seriously, "What do you mean, it's just a piece of paper. Paper, that is the legal basis for us to remain loyal even if the world is destroyed. It is also the passport for our future children to come into this world.
As for being ruined and regretting for life, there is no such thing. /p>
You just said that your classmates are all senior cadres from all over the country, but who knows who among them
Whether it is them and you, or you and them , don’t they look at each other with a black eye?
It’s like this time you came out of Hainan University, and now others only know that you are a student recommended by the directly affiliated institution, and even your family and marital status , no one should knowDaoba
I think Zhou Guoliang is thinking too much. I will call him later and ask him to take you to another province, even a prefecture level that even people in Haicheng have never heard of. If we become leaders in the city and we get married there, who will say anything?”
Wen Ruyu’s heart moved when she heard this, “You really think so”
“Of course, otherwise what do you think?” "
Wen Ruyu smiled and said, "I didn't think much of it. I just think what Leader Tu said is right. Only in a higher position can I give you the greatest help." "
"So," Jia Erhu said with a smile, "You should make good use of this learning opportunity, make more friends with classmates, and build up your own extensive network. Who knows which cloud will rain?
Maybe one day in the future, one of your current classmates will go to Changling to be a leader."
Wen Ruyu smiled slightly and asked emphatically, "You Do you really think so? I'm talking about our marriage. "Please remember to collect, the latest and fastest website without anti-theft, free to find books and add books, you can join the qq group 887805068