Xiao Jie smiled and said, "You are so smart and have such a high emotional intelligence, how come you can't even turn this corner?"
Jia Erhu smiled self-deprecatingly, "I never feel that my IQ is as good as Emotional intelligence is higher than ordinary people, not to mention that the authorities are obsessed with it, and bystanders are clear.
If this problem occurs in other people's families, maybe I can analyze it rationally. Now this problem involves my mother and younger brother. It’s really hard to calm down and think about it.”
Xiao Jie sighed, “Let’s talk about Cao Yadan first. She not only likes you, she even treats you as the only one in her life.” p>
It’s just that she can position herself well and knows that you can’t belong to her, so she buries her love for you silently in her heart and sacrifices everything for you.
In other words, no matter what you ask her to do, she will not hesitate."
Jia Erhu nodded and said, "You mean, if I ask her to marry my brother, she won't do it. No matter what the conditions are, I will never truly love my brother in this life.
In the future, we will become a family. Even if there will be no relationship between me and her, her love for me will be buried deep in her bones. Love will always show up inadvertently.
Once my mother or my brother realize this, I am afraid that my family will never be at peace."
"You. Don't you understand?" Xiao Jie said, "Although you and your brother are twins, your temperaments are too different.
This is like if Wen Ruyu also has a twin sister and she falls in love with another man. , but she wants you to marry her sister, will you?"
Jia Erhu nodded and said, "I understand, even if I marry her sister, it is to have more opportunities in a big family. See her.
As long as she is in need, or in an inappropriate place, even if her sister becomes my wife, I will not hesitate to stand by her if there is a conflict between her sister and her. On her side."
Xiao Jie said, "For the same reason, your brother likes me not only because of my appearance or temperament, but also because of these two factors. A feeling.
This feeling usually has a specific object. Even if the substitute you are looking for surpasses this specific object in all aspects, it is impossible to transfer his feeling towards this specific object. .
Cao Yadan is younger and prettier than me.
But in your brother’s eyes, I’m afraid she is just a little girl. Judging from your brother’s feelings for me, He is very similar to you in that he likes mature women very much.
In fact, Chen Lingyan is really no worse than Wen Ruyu, but you chose the latter between the two.
An inappropriate place. Even if Wen Ruyu can't marry you in this life, I'm afraid you won't marry Chen Lingyan."
Jia Erhu nodded and said, "So my brother likes you in particular. Even if you can't marry him, he won't think of marrying Cao Yadan. "
Xiao Jie said, "Of course. Your brother is afraid of you and knows that you can determine the future direction of his life.
For the sake of his own life and future, he may give in to you and marry the woman you designate for him, but it has nothing to do with love.
If he marries Cao Yadan, it will be like having two people who are not willing to live with each other being tied together.
Their married life is undoubtedly like a zombie. They all have their own love in their hearts. In the fantasy-filled expectation, even if they fail to achieve their goals, they will break the pot and find their own way. The fun of marriage will never let them try to accept each other because of the constraints of marriage.
If they are together, in your big Jia family, there are two people living with different dreams, but one of them is thinking about you every day, and sooner or later your brother and mother will realize this, you Do you think the atmosphere in your entire family will be good?
Will life be happy?"
Jia Erhu said, "Then according to what you say, as long as my brother fails to marry you, he will marry you. No one will be happy"
Xiao Jie explained, "If he is unhappy when he marries someone else, that is his business and has nothing to do with you. But if he is unhappy when he marries Cao Yadan, you are the culprit because the person Cao Yadan likes is you.
As for me, your brother will not be happy whether you marry me or not. "
Jia Erhu asked, "Why?"
Xiao Jie said, "I don't know when your brother started falling in love with me at first sight." People like your brother are probably very similar to you in some aspects, and that is something that no one can change.
He is in love with me now, and no matter what kind of woman I am, it is impossible to keep him away.
You told him about my past experience. I even showed him the pregnancy test report, but he was indifferent.
The reason why he still refuses to give up is not because of how persistent his love is, nor how deep his feelings for me are. In a sense, it is because of his own vanity.
Because giving up on me based on just a few words from you and me, wouldn’t it prove that his previous choice was wrong?
In order to prove that he was never right, even if I am this The most scumbag girl in the world, he will definitely marry me.
But after marrying, you will definitely regret it.
Because he will find that what is not obtained is beautiful, and once it is obtained, it is nothing more than that.
If he meets someone younger and more beautiful than me, he will not hesitate to fall in love with someone else.
If the other party takes the initiative to pursue him, he will accept it without hesitation and then part ways with me.
This is not a high probability, but a situation that will definitely happen 100% of the time.
But if he is not allowed to marry me, he will regret it for the rest of his life. "
Jia Erhu nodded and said, "That's true. This is like when we were children, we fantasized about it every dayLike delicacies from mountains and seas, I always feel that they are the most delicious dishes in the world.
But once I had the conditions to try it, I felt that it was just like that.
But if you never have the conditions to taste it, you will miss it for the rest of your life. ”
Xiao Jie said, “So my advice to you is, not only Cao Yadan, you must not interfere with your brother’s marriage, at least don’t take the initiative to introduce him to a girlfriend, let alone force it.” Who does he accept.
As for me, you have two choices. "
Jia Erhu glared, "Don't do this, just stay at home, let the child be born safely, and then let him grow up happily."
Xiao Jie smiled and said, "Can you hear me out?"
"No" because Jia Erhu knew what Xiao Jie was going to say.
Xiao Jie said, "There is a question, no. I know that you are aware that there are not many patients with depression now. If this matter is not handled well, your brother will easily suffer from depression. ”
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