Lu Zhichao explained, "For any of us, there are usually three nodes that change our outlook on life and way of thinking.
The first node is before and after marriage.
Our initial outlook on life and way of thinking will continue from our teenage years until we become husbands or wives, because changes in the content of life and the responsibilities we shoulder will subtly change our previous inherent outlook on life and thinking. Method.
The second node is before and after giving birth to children.
If our role in the family has always been that of children, then after marriage, our role will change. Transformed into a husband or a wife.
When we have children, we become a father or a mother, and our outlook on life and way of thinking will be completely different from before.
P. The three nodes are after our grandchildren are born.
When we become grandfathers or grandmothers, our outlook on life and way of thinking will undergo a subversive change compared to the past. ”< /p>
Xiao Jie immediately understood, "Mr. Lu, you mean to let Mr. Jia's brother get married early."
"That's right." Lu Zhichao explained, "His brother's current outlook on life and thinking The method has been developed over the years, unless one has experienced a special life hardship, such as a sudden disability in some parts of the body, or, like him, being thrown into prison due to contact with the law and losing personal freedom.
Otherwise, it is difficult for a person to change his nature with ordinary threats and slight physical harm, not to mention that you can't hurt him
No matter what he thinks now. , since he has done something to hurt Jia Erhu, your threats to him will only temporarily make him regret and regret it.
But once this matter is over, there will be a better one. Given the opportunity, he would also choose to hurt Jia Erhu again.
There is no other reason than that his outlook on life and way of thinking have not changed. He is only temporarily restricted by external forces and will rebound immediately if he has the opportunity. .
But if he gets married at this time, it will be completely different."
Xiao Jie nodded and said, "Take Zhao Jiawei as an example. , in his mind, he always feels that he is his mother's child and his brother's younger brother. If something happens, there will always be someone in the family to take care of him.
If he gets married, for him, they will. The couple's family is his real home, and his role has changed from son and brother to husband, the head of the family.
His outlook on life and way of thinking must be thinking about more. He no longer has the willfulness and childishness of being a son and a younger brother." Lu Zhichao nodded and said, "That's right. Preparation means that he is sure that his mother will protect him with all her life, and his brother will not kill him, so he has no one else to worry about, soThat's reckless.
Because for him, there are no consequences at all.
But if he gets married, he will have scruples. If his mother can't save him, and his brother doesn't want his life, but throws him into prison directly through legal means, what will his wife do< /p>
If he has a child, his psychological burden will be even heavier when he thinks about his own growth process.
This is the direct reason why many people become less courageous and think more rationally after getting married and having children.
If Zhao Jiawei is not in love, try to get him to be with another girl if possible.
If you are already in love, you should find a way to get him married as soon as possible. ”
“Okay, I understand. After hanging up the phone, Xiao Jie muttered, "We have to change him."
Sun Chao was surprised, "Why, are you planning to marry him?"
"What are you thinking about?" Xiao Jie asked Sun Chao to park on the side of the road, picked up her mobile phone and dialed Xu Feili's number, "Director Xu, could you please tell me Su Qianqian's mobile phone number?"
Xu Feili knew that Xiao Jie had nothing to do with Su Qianqian. She must have wanted this phone number to deal with Zhao Jiawei, so she didn't ask any questions and directly told Xiao Jie Su Qianqian's mobile phone number.
Jie immediately called Su Qianqian.
Su Qianqian was about to get off work. She hesitated for a while when she saw the unfamiliar mobile phone number, and then clicked "Hello".
Xiao Jie said, "Su Qianqian." My name is Xiao Jie, the vice president of Red Star Company. "
Of course Su Qianqian knew her, she felt nervous and said uneasily, "Oh, Mr. Xiao, do you have anything to do with me?"
"Please wait for me at the door of the unit, I will be there soon. . ”
After saying that, Xiao Jie hung up the phone.
Su Qianqian frowned, wondering why Xiao Jie suddenly came to look for her.
She knew that Xiao Jie Jie is so powerful that she even knows that Xiao Jie is Jia Erhu's lover. Su Qianqian has always had a crush on Jia Erhu. She has a guilty conscience and is worried that Xiao Jie will find out something.
In fact, she only has a crush on him, except for that night. She almost never met Jia Erhu at the night market stall. Xiao Jie was not a god, so how could she know that she had a crush on Jia Erhu?
However, after Zhao Jiawei and Han Jing moved into the rental house, she often I went to see Han Jing because I wanted to meet Jia Erhu by chance in the rental house.
Han Jing thought she was interested in Zhao Jiawei, but Zhao Jiawei saw that her thoughts were not on him.
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Su Qianqian was worried whether Xiao Jie would get any hints from Zhao Jiawei, otherwise, why would he suddenly call her out of nowhere
Seeing that Su Qianqian was already standing at the door of the unit, Xiao Jie asked Sun Chao to take them to a western restaurant later, and then went to have dinner and wait for her call.
After the car stopped in front of Su Qianqian, Xiao Jie asked Su Qianqian to get in the car, which made Su Qianqian even more panicked. , but still bite the bulletGot in the car.
After Sun Chao sent them to the western restaurant, he went to a small shop nearby to eat.
Xiao Jie led Su Qianqian into a booth in the restaurant and sat down. After ordering the meal, she looked directly at Su Qianqian and asked directly, "Do you like our Mr. Jia very much?"
Su Qianqian was so scared that her heart almost jumped out of her chest.
She tried hard to show disdain, but the muscles on her face had stiffened, and the sneer looked more like a bitter smile of fear. She wanted to be righteous, but she seemed to be guilty and defended, "How is it possible? How could I like him?"
Xiao Jie asked, "If it weren't for him, you could become the unit chief, but you have seen with your own eyes that any big social figure or big boss is nothing in front of him.
You are very smart, and of course you know that as long as you become his wife, let alone the section chief, the director of the State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission will be yours from now on.
You can do it even if you don't stay in the system. Become the boss lady of Red Star Company.
I’m right, right?”
Su Qianqian wanted to fight back, but every word Xiao Jie said hit home. That’s what she really thought. .
In addition, she knows what kind of person Xiao Jie is, and will she beat her up on the spot if she is too tough?
Su Qianqian, who was panicked, wanted to defend herself, but couldn't. My mouth was dry out of fear, so I swallowed hard, but I was still speechless. Please remember to collect it, the latest and fastest website without anti-theft, free to find books and add books, you can join the qq group 887805068