Jia Erhu smiled slightly, "Your face is red again, why can't you be more confident? Do you think the age difference between me and the local leader is too great, or do the two of us have different statuses?
Again Or after all, she is your elder, and I am the brother of your classmate. It is far-fetched to put me and Leader Tu together. I always feel that it is not the case, at least such words should not come out of your mouth.
Right?"
Cheng Caini nodded, "Since you can think of everything, it seems that I don't need to add any extraneous details."
Jia Erhu "Yeah. "Let's discuss the matter. Regardless of whether I have anything to do with Leader Tu, if that was your judgment just now and you want to express it in front of me, then you should finish your sentence.
In that case, you can show your confidence.
You left half a sentence, and you listed all the prerequisites, but when you were about to come up with the answer, you stopped suddenly. .
This is because you are hesitant, even a little regretful, and worried about gains and losses, which makes you unable to control your emotions easily, so your face turns red.
In other words, whether you want to say something or do something, as long as you hesitate, it will easily cause a psychological imbalance.
This imbalance will make you habitually behave in a certain way. Expressed in the form of blushing."
Jia Erhu's words may sound a bit convoluted to ordinary people, but Cheng Caini not only understood his meaning accurately, but also felt a little confused about a person who had not graduated from high school. Why do people in jail seem to have some foundation in psychology?
Just when she was looking at Jia Erhu in a daze, Jia Erhu suddenly stretched out his hand and pinched her face. Cheng Caini was instantly confused. , looked at Jia Erhu with a blushing face.
Jia Erhu said calmly, "If I really want to eat you, you will definitely hesitate. After being pinched by me, will you remain silent or explode< /p>
If it’s silent, do you acquiesce, or do you want to see my next move?
If it’s an explosion, will you give me a slap in the face, threaten to call the police, or take the initiative. Come into my arms
If I had these distracting thoughts in my heart, do you think my face would not be red?
The reason why my face is not red is just because of my This move is to prove to you that anyone can control their emotions very well when saying a word or doing something without any distractions.
Let’s talk about you.
If you are angry, even if you don’t get angry, at least you will have a black face.
If you are not angry and even want to have something to do with me, you will. Pretending to be coquettish.
But you were completely confused just now, and you didn’t know what my sudden move meant, because there was no warning that you wanted to get angry. , but hesitant, because you are sureI won't pinch you for no reason and you really can't figure out the reason.
In addition, at least so far, you have a good impression of me. At least you don’t think that I am a gangster who likes to use hands and feet.
The same reason is because there is no warning. Even if you like me in your heart, you will not miss my embrace.
When you face me, you don’t know what to do, so your face turns red again.
Do you understand what I mean now?"
Cheng Caini shook her head, "I have to admit that your point of view is theoretically valid and very convincing.
But I still want to say, you are just taking advantage of me. ”
Jia Erhu glanced at her and asked, “Are you sure?”
Cheng Caini raised her neck, “Of course”
Jia Erhu took out his mobile phone and directly Clicked on the camera and held it in front of Cheng Caini.
"What are you doing?" Cheng Caini asked in confusion.
Jia Erhu said, "Look, your face is not red. Because you have just confirmed that we are not flirting. I pinched your face to illustrate a problem. You said that I took the opportunity to eat tofu, which is also to illustrate a problem.
You think so and say it with such confidence, so your face will not turn red. "
Cheng Caini shook her head and said with a slight smile, "You are really powerful. I didn't mean that you got into a fight. Your mannerisms and persuasiveness are beyond the capabilities of a person of your experience and age.
You and Zhao Jiawei are twins. Speaking of which, I should be a month older than him, and at the same time, I am also a month older than you.
In front of you, I really think that I am your brother’s classmate and your little sister.
From the first time I met you to now, no matter what you say or do, you make me feel like a real big brother, or even a big brother. "
Jia Erhu smiled, "You are also very good. You flattered me in person for so long without even blushing, which made me think that everything you said was true. "
Cheng Caini said, "What I said is true. "
Jia Erhu said, "So you are confident, so your face is not red, because when you were going to say these words of praise for me, you did not hesitate. We were concerned about gains and losses.
So if you remember these two feelings, you can overcome the problem of blushing all the time.
The reason why Leader Tu said that the two of us have that kind of relationship, at least because you fell in love with me, is because when you came back from Changling and met with them and talked about me, I’m afraid there was a The mentality of worrying about gains and losses.
I want to say good things about me, but I am afraid of being misunderstood by them.
Say I’m not good, just think that I’m not bad to you either.
It is this kind of hesitation that makes you blush when you mention me, which leads to Leader Tu's wrong judgment.
She can make this kind of judgment, doesn’t your future father-in-law also
Your fiancé is probably more sensitive than them
So your blushing problem will not only affect your career, but may also affect your marriage, that is, your life.
There is nothing wrong with what I said."
Cheng Caini had to nod very seriously, "Mr. Jia, I understand. "
Jia Erhu then said, "The reason why Leader Tu mentioned this matter in front of me is because his son is still in the West Country, and your future father-in-law does not want her son to come back. Your future mother-in-law in the West, Gong Wenxia, doesn't want her son to come back either.
After all, Leader Tu still has real power, and Gong Wenxia keeps her son as a bargaining chip.
Leader Tu understands that Gong Wenxia is the most afraid of me, so you let me go to your family gathering just to let Gong Wenxia know that I have intervened in the matter of Leader Tu’s son, and she will not ignore it. .
But if there is a scandal between you and me at this time, it will be counterproductive and self-defeating.
So Leader Tu is not making fun of you when he is flirting with me, but is reminding me to pay attention to you.
And when we were eating at the table that night, the way you looked at me and the expression on your face were always abnormal. Everyone at the table at that time would probably think that we had an affair. "
Cheng Caini nodded and said, "I understand. "Please remember to collect, the latest and fastest website without anti-theft, free to find books and add books, you can join the qq group 887805068