Hu Youmin said seriously, "As the saying goes, one year older, my father's generation, I am already 40, you say I am not old"
Jia Erhu was about to say, "Not at all." "Not old", and Hu Youmin doesn't look like a 40-year-old.
Ding Min said first, "Come on, team leader, I don't know how old you are, you are only thirty-six this year."
Hu Youmin argued, "That's better than you." More than ten years older."
Ding Min corrected, "Nine years older, that's right. I heard that your lover has passed away for several years, but why haven't you found another one?
Even if it's not for yourself. , you should also think about your children."
Jia Erhu was stunned for a moment. Only then did he realize that Hu Youmin was widowed and now living alone. In this case, his attitude towards Ding Min would be even more admirable.
Hu Youmin shook his head, "Life is short and there are not many opportunities for mistakes. I have made two mistakes on emotional issues in my life. I really can't afford it and I don't want to make any more mistakes." "
Ding Min said, "Team leader, are you interested in guiding us and talking about the emotional mistakes you have made, so that we young people can avoid risks?"
Hu Youmin Shaking his head and saying, "Why, you want to bully me, an old man, and use me as a negative example?"
Ding Min smiled and said, "Since you insist on claiming to be an old man, it is really necessary to make contributions to the cultivation of the next generation for the motherland." Contribution"
Hu Youmin smiled, shook his head, and sighed, "The first mistake I made was to put forward a very inappropriate condition to a girl I liked very much, and she ended up breaking up with her.
This was the first mistake I made
Later I thought, since I didn’t get the one I liked, I would choose someone who liked me.
< p>I have been married to my wife for five years and I have no feelings for her at all. It wasn’t until she died in a car accident that I realized that besides my parents, the most selfless person to me in the world was my wife.When she was alive, I was even a little annoyed with her, and I would lose my temper with her at every turn.
It wasn’t until she left that I realized that no matter where I went, the air around me was even the same. Everything is filled with her aura.
In other words, I have become dependent on her unconsciously. At that time, I felt like a shackles.
When she left, I realized that I seemed to have lost the whole world.
In other words, I felt like I was abandoned by the whole world. It’s the same.
This is the second mistake I have made, so I don’t want to make the third mistake again in this life. It’s too painful.”
Ding Min asked. I’m really sorry for what happened to my sister-in-law, and I feel really sorry for her.
But I believe that if you have any knowledge, your sister-in-law will be moved by your sincerity.”
Hu Youmin shook his head and said, "I never think about such things as self-deception. Originally, this matterIt will be buried in my heart forever and become a lifetime memory and secret. Today I was dragged into the trap by you two young men.
But even if I say it, I feel a lot more relaxed. "
Ding Min nodded and said, "That's true. Sometimes people just need to talk. By the way, team leader, I also want to know what conditions you proposed to the other party for the first mistake you made."
Hu Youmin waved his hand, "You can't say it, you can't say it, and you have no shame to say it."
Ding Min smiled understandingly and asked, "How is she doing now?"
Hu Youmin smiled bitterly and said, "She must not be doing well, she is not married yet. "
Ding Min and Jia Erhu were stunned at the same time.
Ding Min asked, "How old is she?"
Hu Youmin said, "Thirty." "
Ding Min asked again, "Why don't you go find her?"
"Look for her." Hu Youmin shook his head and said, "When I was not married, she broke up with me. Now I How can you find her with a child?"
Ding Min said, "She is not married yet, could it be because of you?"
Hu Youmin shook his head and said, "I just told my wife After a few years of marriage, I called her because I didn't feel anything, but I didn't have any other thoughts. I just wanted to apologize to her and keep dating her as a confidante, but she didn't forgive me at all.
I continued to pay attention to her from now on. It was not until my wife passed away two years ago that I stopped paying attention to her because I felt ashamed of my wife."
Jia Erhu sighed secretly, thinking that no wonder he didn't fall into the wrong trap and try to take advantage of Ding Min. It seemed that his guilt for his wife had made him lose interest in women.
Ding Min. Shi smiled and said, "Team leader, tell me who she is according to our system, and I will go and find out for you."
Hu Youmin shook his head and said, "No. But it is also within the system. It used to be under the Provincial State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission, but was later transferred to a lower level. "
Jia Erhu was startled when he heard this, thinking it couldn't be Lin Yue
Ding Min asked again, "It's not good to just stay in the province, why do you want to come here?" Go downstairs, I understand. Maybe she has not forgotten you and moved downstairs to escape you
Tell me, where is she now?
Team leader, this is a big deal I'll help you decide."
Hu Youmin shook his head and said, "Forget it. Even as you said, since she chose to escape, I should respect her choice.
If we are never together, maybe we will always miss each other.
If they really come together, it might be the beginning of another tragedy. "
Ding Min asked persistently, "Team leader, can you stop being so self-righteous and pessimistic? Just tell me who she is. I must go and meet her."
Hu Youmin shook his head, "Eat quickly, eat quickly." As soon as we both came together, the training in the afternoon stopped and had to continue in the evening, so as not to let the leaders gossip. "
Jia Erhu said at this time"Leader, I still have some connections in the State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission system. I won't ask you to reunite. As long as you tell me who she is, maybe I can help her a little."
Hu Youmin was stunned. Jia Erhu looked at Jia Erhu in disbelief.
Ding Min has already told Hu Youmin about Jia Erhu’s past. A prisoner who has been released from prison can still boast that he has connections within the system
He had just established a relationship with Jia Erhu before. The good impression I had initially felt was suddenly brought back to its original state.
The problem is that Jia Erhu has a sincere expression, and it doesn't look like he is telling lies.
Ding Min smiled and said, "Team leader, don't underestimate this brother of mine. I told you just now that he never relies on my father, and he is richer than my father. "
Hu Youmin thought that your father is a famous entrepreneur in Haicheng. I know it, but why haven't I heard that Jia Erhu is more famous than your father?
"Little Jia ," Hu Youmin asked, "In the State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission, do you know the highest-ranking person? What is his rank?"
Jia Erhu said, "Let me tell you this, I just started a project in Changling. What we contacted was the Changling City State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission.
I asked a director of their personnel department to become the deputy director of the State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission, and a leader of the discipline inspection team to serve as the municipal government in Changling City. "The deputy director of the office."
Hu Youmin's eyes were as wide as a bell, and he was stunned for a long time before asking, "Is the disciplinary inspection team leader you are talking about Lin Yue?"
Jia Erhu nodded.
"Why, she is now working as the deputy director of the city government office"
Jia Erhu nodded again.
Hu Youmin was dumbfounded and said no more.
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