In Dongfang Daxing’s memory, this was the first time that his daughter had asked him a question since she became an adult, and there was no longer any resentment caused by misunderstanding in her eyes. Dongfang Daxing thanked Jia Erhu from the bottom of his heart. .
If the same words came from Dongfang Daxing's mouth, he knew that his daughter might not necessarily believe it. Even if there was irrefutable evidence that Dongfang Xiong was not his child, he would probably make excuses and always stand on her mother's side. .
As an outsider, even as her mother’s enemy, Jia Erhu’s words made her firmly believe it and at the same time decisively stand on her father’s side.
However, Dongfang Daxing did not want to protect Jia Erhu in front of his daughter.
For the sake of his daughter and this family, he even had to warn his daughter.
Dongfang Daxing walked to the chair beside the bed and sat down. He first tucked his daughter in, and then said, "Zhao Jiawei, who came at noon, is the brother of Jia Erhu's twins. His performance is so impressive." This is how Jia Erhu should behave.
He also went to college and now works within the system. Jia Erhu has only been in prison for a few years. Logically speaking, he is more mature than Jia Erhu. It would be better to be more knowledgeable, but what we saw was exactly the opposite.
How should I put it?
Zhao Jiawei’s performance is what Jia Erhu should perform at his age, but Jia Erhu is unusually mature.
My impression is that Jia Erhu, who was supposed to be the same as Zhao Jiawei, is more like his father, or in other words, Jia Erhu is like him. It's like his father is possessed."
Fangfang Na nodded and said, "Indeed, Jia Erhu's performance is too inconsistent with his age."
Fangfang Daxing continued. In fact, it doesn’t matter what kind of person he is. What matters is what kind of person he is in your eyes.
In other words, when anyone faces different objects, what kind of person he shows is Each side is different.
And no one knows which side is the truest side of this person.
So don’t worry about who Jia Erhu is. Instead, try to make him the kind of person you want him to be."
Fangfang Na sighed, "I understand what you mean, but I don't know what to do. It's the most difficult thing in the world. The most important thing is to try to change a person, not to mention Jia Erhu is still my enemy."
Dongfang Daxing shook his head and almost repeated what he said to Dongfang Xiong to Dongfang Na, "Jia Erhu. Tiger is not your enemy, he is just your mother's enemy. To be precise, your mother is his enemy.
That's why, even if he found someone to find your mother in the West Country last time. Trouble, but it didn't hurt you, and your two brothers didn't even do anything detrimental to your company.
Because in his eyes, he is the only one who cares about your mother. enemy, as for you and your two brothers, and even me, they are all innocent.
Of course, he also knows very well that once he turns to the enemy.When your mother takes revenge, you, your two brothers, and I will not hesitate to stand against her.
So his attitude towards you actually depends more on your attitude towards him. "
Dongfang Na nodded and said, "I understand this very well. I just want to know what I can do to resolve his hatred for his mother. "
Dongfang Daxing shook his head and said, "Hate cannot be resolved. If you can do that, it will only arouse his vigilance, and maybe even make him take the initiative to attack you, or even attack your mother in advance. Take revenge.
What you have to do is forget his hatred for your mother.
Just like when you invest in shares this time, you should make him feel that you are interested in his company or project, or even his ability as a person.
And you can clearly tell him that you invest to make money, make more money, and never mention your mother.
When you have common interests in finance, or have common enemies in business, and have experienced sharing weal and woe, then it will be possible to downplay his hatred of your mother. We should learn from Ding Min.
By the way, Ding Min is Ding Xiaotian’s daughter. "
Fangfang Na smiled bitterly and said, "I met her yesterday and I feel that she is very strong, a bit like me. ”
Dongfang Daxing said, “It is said that her temperament and personality are very similar to yours, but she is much more superficial and irritable than you.
Because your perseverance comes from hard work in the business world.
And her tenacity is because she has been an armed police officer and now works in the police.
It is said that when facing Jia Erhu, she has more desire to conquer Jia Erhu than you, or that is the case, but her attitude towards Jia Erhu, to you, is It can be called textbook level. "
Fangfang Na suddenly became interested. She suddenly stood up and put the pillow on the head of the bed, then leaned her body against it and asked, "How did she treat Jia Erhu." "
Dongfang Daxing was startled, "Why can you sit up? Are you okay?"
Fangfang Na was also stunned. She took a deep breath and said in surprise, "Huh? , it’s really okay, it doesn’t hurt at all. ”
Dongfang Daxing sighed, “It seems that Jia Erhu’s body energy is too strong. It will be very difficult for anyone who is his enemy to use force to deal with him.”
So you must not try to use force, even if it is any form of force, don't think about it, but start from other aspects.
I just thought he was bragging. I didn’t expect that he could control your injuries. If he can even control your injuries, wouldn’t he be more comfortable controlling his own body?"
Dongfang Na couldn't wait any longer, "Don't worry, Dad, I won't borrow any power to use force against him. Not only is he powerful personally, but he can also use the power of Kuroshio Company.
To put it bluntly,Even if I could spend money to find a top-notch killer, I wouldn't be able to complete the cleanup work afterwards.
So I especially want to know how Ding Min dealt with him
I saw that Ding Min seemed to be very cruel to him, at least maintaining a condescending attitude, and Jia Erhu seems to be quite useful, how did Ding Min do it?"
Dongfang Daxing explained, "As far as I know, when Ding Min took Jia Erhu to find your mother, they They encountered a storm on the road, and were later washed down the ravine by a mudslide. The two experienced a life and death crisis together. "
Dongfang Na nodded and said, "That's it. ”
Dongfang Daxing continued, “Not only that. According to my understanding, in their subsequent interactions, Ding Min never mentioned the matter between his father and Jia Erhu.
Even his younger brother Ding Gang had a conflict with Jia Erhu because of Chen Lingyan's matter, and she never mentioned her brother's matter.
She was simply dating Jia Erhu, as if Ding Xiaotian was not her father and Ding Gang was not her brother. "
Dongfang Na nodded and said, "I understand. ”
“You don’t understand. Dongfang Daxing said, "And according to my understanding, Ding Min has always been very strong in his relationship with Jia Erhu. As you said, he has always had a condescending attitude."
That's because she has corrected her position, because she is older than Jia Erhu and is a sister, so she never pretends to be young.
And because she is from the police and Jia Erhu was once a reform-through-labor prisoner, it is normal for her to be condescending.
And she has always maintained this posture, so Jia Erhu not only recognized it, but also aroused his desire to conquer her.
Because of this, Ding Min not only always takes the initiative in his interactions with Jia Erhu, but even handles it with ease.
This is why Ding Xiaotian was so close to Jia Erhu, but Jia Erhu did not take revenge on him.
It was either because of anything else or because of Ding Min's actions that put Jia Erhu in a dilemma. "
Fangfang Na asked, "Dad, how do you know these situations? Of course, if it is inconvenient, you don't have to tell me." "Please remember to collect, the latest and fastest website without anti-theft, free to find books and add books, you can join the qq group 887805068