Gao Yide said with great emotion, "Mr. Lu, your teachings really enlightened me.
I have always believed that a person's success is mainly based on the family's strong financial strength, and Strong social resources, in fact, I have overlooked a more important point, which is the advancement of personal ideas and concepts.
Although I entered a leadership position at a very young age, I was always dismissed. Bound by my own inherent ideas and concepts, I think I can assess the situation and adapt to circumstances. Although I am in a relatively closed environment in school, I can still integrate with society.
After truly entering the society. , I felt that my thoughts were very fixed, even very narrow.
As for my opinion of Teacher Wen, I stubbornly believed that she was still the teacher in the university lecture hall, except for teaching hard. Apart from that, not to mention her power and scheming, even her social experience seems childish like a girl.
In my memory, apart from her concentration on teaching, she seems to be the only one who knows her. My strength is that I am good at cooking.
If it weren’t for your guidance, I would never be able to connect the teacher Wen in front of me with the teacher Wen in my memory. ” p>
Lu Zhichao sighed, "Actually, what you said is right. Whether a person is successful or not is mainly based on the family's strong economic strength and strong social resources.
Because of the family's Economic strength and social resources determine the track in which you compete in life.
This is just like an athlete. Some people can only participate in amateur competitions, even if they win the championship in all competitions. He is still an amateur athlete.
Some people can participate in the World Athletics Golden League, even if they are at the bottom every time, they still live up to the envy and admiration of most people.
< p>Take you and me as an example. I came from a restructured state-owned enterprise. Among my classmates, comrades, colleagues and neighbors, I have become a rare person and have become the center of conversation in front of and behind everyone.But. So what? I just live at the bottom of society and look very glamorous.
Even now, they still envy me because I am not as burdened by work and family as they are. I spend my days out traveling around the mountains and rivers.
But the value behind my glamour, to put it bluntly, is like the renewable waste in the garbage dump, unlike those who drive private planes and private yachts. , compared with the big guys who travel around the world and give guidance on life, they are not in the same universe at all.
Take you as an example, your thoughts and ideas are different from the group you live in. Among them, you are not only keeping pace with the times, you can even say that you are ahead of the curve.
Among your peers, they are also immersed in the lecture notes on their desks, worrying about whether they can get funding for their projects, and themselves. When it comes to the employment status of the students you teach, you have already become the leader of the school.
In other schools, you are the leader.When you are fighting for power for some false fame and interests in front of you, you are in the circle, but you are outside the circle. In terms of logistics, you have obtained all the interests that a person in your position can obtain, and you can also have it both ways. , it can be said that your humanoid life has become the most glorious one.
Even so, if the entire society is like a building, you and I are actually still in the basement, but closer to the ground than the location of other living beings in the basement.
Our position determines our height, as well as our insights and ideas.
Teacher Wen was originally below us, but now she has stepped into the ground, or in other words, she is just about to step into the ground, but has already received the sunshine, so with you and me With knowledge, it is impossible to guess her true inner thoughts.
But there is one thing that can be said to be an unbreakable truth in life, that is, whether you face people or things, if you think the best of the other person, there is a high probability that you will be slapped in the face by the cruel reality.
If you think the worst about the other person and have a dark mentality, your life will always be in darkness.
So my point of view is that no matter how I deal with anyone or anything, I have beautiful visions and ideals, but I should always be careful about the traps in front of me and the cliffs behind me.
In other words, we must all be clearly aware that everyone and everything in this world has a double-sided nature to us.
As the saying goes, blessings and disasters depend on each other, and disasters and blessings rely on them. Misfortunes and blessings depend on each other. ”
These principles are not profound, and it is not that Gao Yide does not understand them at all. He has even told the same principles to others on other occasions.
It’s just that there are some When you get deeper into the game, you become unable to see yourself clearly.
Just like everyone knows that staying up late is not good, let alone playing games all night long. Losing oneself while playing with things is the biggest enemy in life.
When facing others, most people can see this problem clearly, and when it is their turn, they have sufficient reason to forget all this.
Gao Yide nodded repeatedly, "Mr. Lu said that too much. Well, it’s a pity that you and I weren’t very familiar with each other in the past, and I couldn’t listen to your teachings earlier, otherwise I wouldn’t be where I am now. "
Lu Zhichao smiled and shook his head, "I'm not as miraculous as you said. We are all fans of the authorities, and we are just bystanders.
Don’t look at me talking incessantly and clearly, but if I actually do it, you and I are the same, and we can’t escape our limitations.
But having said that, since our perspectives are different and the environments we are in are also very different, if we deepen communication earlier, it can indeed serve as a reminder to each other, or even a knock on each other, which will be good for you. It helps me improve.
Gao Yide smiled humbly and said, "Where is it? Mr. Lu's experience can be said that every pearl is worth a thousand pieces of gold."
In addition, I have another very important thing that I would like to ask you.Mr. Lu, I sincerely regard you as a senior, and I also hope that you can treat me as your child and teach me without hesitation. "
Lu Zhichao shook his head and said, "You are serious, Xiao Gao. The family relationship between Xiaoping and I is one thing, but the relationship between you and me is another.
It’s rare for you and me to be so speculative. If you have any questions, you can tell us and we might as well discuss it together. ”
Gao Yide lowered his voice and said, “Presumably Mr. Lu knows better than me. Even though we just had a meeting, Mr. Jia and Mr. Dongfang cooperated tacitly. Some things even reached the point of being in sync with each other, and even set the total share capital of the company.” When it reaches 1 billion, it's like rolling up your sleeves and going for a big fight. In fact, they, including the Ding Group, all have their own little calculations.
If it is just a matter of economic interests, the problem is that the grudges of the previous generation are also involved between the three of them.
In a sense, Mr. Jia's current state is that of dancing with wolves, single-handedly facing two powerful enemies that may cannibalize him.
I used to be a colleague of Mr. Wen, and Mr. Jia personally invited me here and entrusted me with the important task of general manager. Even if I don’t say I repay my kindness, I can’t be ungrateful.
But the problem is that the reason why I am here is very complicated and even difficult to explain.
Let me tell you this, whether I like it or not, the nature of the relationship between Mr. Jia and I is definitely not the same.
In other words, even if I choose to side with him, he will never treat me as a confidant.
In this case, once Dongfang Group and Ding Group join forces to cause trouble with Mr. Jia in the company, what kind of attitude should I have and whose standpoint do I speak from? ”
Lu Zhichao was stunned for a moment, “Xiao Gao, it’s normal for you to have such concerns, but what’s abnormal is, why would you ask me for this question?” Please remember to bookmark it, the latest website is the fastest and free to find without anti-theft. If you add books, you can add qq group 887805068