Chapter 231: How to deal with Chinese-style parents

Qiao Weidong complained, "Tell me, this balloon is about a child's dream. Why do you insist on asking her to write down her test scores?"

"The most important thing for her now is the college entrance examination. Write What's wrong with the scores? Besides, Qiao Weidong, what qualifications do you have to accuse me? In the future, you should stop hanging around in front of the child and distract her attention. I am here to encourage the child, and you are always discouraging behind. How can the child's grades be better? "Song Qian said angrily.

"You are simply unreasonable" Qiao Weidong left angrily.

After Qiao Weidong left, Song Qian went to Qin Hao and told her what had just happened, hoping that Qin Hao would help her make peace.

"Teacher Qin, tell me what's wrong with today's children. They get angry if they don't do something right."

Qin Hao interrupted rudely, "Teacher Song, as a parent, you should look after your daughter." Chengfeng, there is nothing wrong with that, but did you push Yingzi too hard? The divorce between you and Lao Qiao itself caused indelible trauma in Yingzi's heart. Maybe you feel that you are wronged, but have you ever thought about it? The mental state of adolescent children like Yingzi is extremely fragile. Now that the college entrance examination is approaching, there are so many pressures stacked on top of each other. If a teenage child cannot bear it, have you ever thought about the consequences?"< /p>

Song Qian didn't know how to refute for a moment and froze on the spot.

After speaking, Qin Hao ignored Song Qian's reaction and went straight to the teaching building to look for Qiao Yingzi.

Song Qian is a very strong person at heart. Since her divorce from Qiao Weidong, she has focused all her attention on Qiao Yingzi, thinking that this is her love for her daughter, and it is easy to Self-motivated, regardless of whether the daughter likes it or not, this is also a typical Chinese parent.

The three words "for your own good" are really useful. No matter how excessive things these Chinese-style parents do, as long as they say it silently in their hearts, they can forgive themselves and then feel touched. , completely disregarding the children's feelings.

When I arrived at the top of the teaching building, I found Qiao Yingzi squatting there crying. Qin Hao silently walked behind her.

Qiao Yingzi was a little surprised and stopped crying. "Old Qin, why are you here?"

"Your mother asked me to persuade you." Qin Hao handed it to her. A pack of tissues.

Qiao Yingzi wiped her tears and hummed, "Why doesn't she come by herself?"

Qin Hao did not answer, but said slowly, "A person is hiding in a corner crying. It's a sign of weakness. Do you expect that if you cry here, your mother won't force you?"

"Then what do you think I should do?" Qiao Yingzi looked at Qin Hao confused.

Qin Hao sat down next to her and smiled, "The great leader once said that if you seek peace through struggle, you will survive in peace, and if you seek peace through compromise, you will perish in peace. All rights must be fought for by oneself. , the relationship between people is the same, if you are strong, she will be weak, if you are weak, she will be strong."

"That's my mother, you said she was like a class enemy." Qiao Yingzi burst into laughter. .

Qin Hao spread his hands and said, "In a sense, the relationship between parents and children is really that of class enemies. "

Qiao Yingzi thought for a long time, and finally shook her head, "I can't do that. My mother has already lost my father. If she loses me again, she will collapse. "

Qin Hao sighed secretly, how could Song Qian Hede have such a daughter.

"Do you still remember the story I told you about the twenty-four filial piety in ancient times?" Qin Hao asked.

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Qiao Yingzi nodded.

Qin Hao tapped her head lightly, "Sometimes I really want to open your head and see if there is anything inside. An ancient soul. "

"As an adult, your mother's psychological endurance must be much stronger than yours. Secondly, in modern society, there is no need to rely on clans to survive. People are independent of each other. Whoever leaves you cannot survive. If you still want to continue to fulfill your dream of spaceflight, you must learn to defend your dream. Otherwise, you can only live according to your mother's will and live as she wants. "

Qiao Yingzi was struggling after hearing this. She didn't want to make Song Qian sad, but she was not willing to become a puppet. She had to make a choice between family love and dreams.

"But, what should I do?" Qiao Yingzi pulled Qin Hao's sleeve nervously. She had no experience in fighting and didn't know how to fight against Song Qian.

Qin Hao said seriously. "In fact, the confrontation between children and parents is often about who is more ruthless. As long as you grasp the things that your mother cares about most and contradict her a few times, she will make concessions. "

"What my mother cares about most is my study," Qiao Yingzi asked blankly.

Qin Hao shook his head, "No, what she cares about most is controlling you. You are now She's still underage, so if you want to escape her control, you still need someone's help. "

"My dad," Qiao Yingzi's eyes lit up.

Not enough, he immediately said, "But, when my dad sees my mother, he is like a cat seeing a mouse. Can he do it? ”

Qin Hao chuckled, “Believe me, for caring about little cotton-padded jacket, dad is the most powerful creature in the world.”

Qiao Yingzi laughed out loud, “That’s right.” It seems like you also have a daughter. ”

“Perhaps, it happened in my previous life. "Qin Haodan said calmly.

In a restaurant box outside the school, Qiao Weidong hurried over in a hurry. As soon as he entered the box door, he said worriedly to Qiao Yingzi.

"Yingzi, how are you? Are you okay?"

Qiao Yingzi held her father's arm, "Dad, I'm okay. I just want to ask you for help." "

"Hey, I'm shocked. You have to tell me everything in person. If you call me, my dad will go through fire and water. "Qiao Weidong breathed a sigh of relief, then patted his chest and said.

So Qiao Yingzi told Qiao Weidong the plan made by Qin Hao.

Qiao Weidong felt a little regretful when he heard it. He had just said too much Man, he was afraid of Song Qian from the bottom of his heart, and he had developed a habit of it over the years.

Seeing Qiao Weidong start to back off, Qin Hao winked at Qiao Yingzi.

Seeing this, Qiao Yingzi shook Qiao Weidong's arm and acted coquettishly, "Dad, you just said that you would do anything to help me, but you are not willing to help me with this small favor."

"But , when I separated from your mother, we agreed that the custody rights would belong to your mother. It would be a bit unkind to break her promise now. Besides, after all, your mother has taken care of you for so many years. I am not afraid of hurting her heart. ." Qiao Weidong comforted.

Qiao Yingzi pouted and shook off Qiao Weidong's arm, "Then you're not afraid of my sadness. You haven't seen that my mother looks at me like a thief now, and she still gives me all day long. She made those medicinal foods and drank them until I almost vomited. She was so moved that I no longer even have the right to eat fried dough sticks. Dad, if this continues, I will be depressed. ”

"That's pretty much it. Thank you, dad, you're the best." Qiao Yingzi immediately smiled.

In fact, Qin Hao's plan was very simple, which was to set up a target for Qiao Weidong and let him pretend to compete with Song Qian for custody rights, in order to suppress Song Qian's growing desire to control Qiao Yingzi.

The main reason why parents have so much control over their children is that the children have no financial ability and can only rely on them to live. However, Qiao Yingzi also has a father. With Qiao Weidong's financial strength, she can completely let Qiao Yingzi Yingzi lives a carefree life as a rich second generation.

Qiao Weidong saw his daughter beaming with joy, but his face was full of sadness. In fact, he still had Song Qian in his heart. In this way, his dream of reuniting with Song Qian was undoubtedly shattered.

"Well, Yingzi, please get in the car and sit for a while. Dad and Teacher Qin have something to say."

After eating and drinking, Qiao Weidong sent Qiao Yingzi away when he left, and then Staring at Qin Hao with big eyes.

"Teacher Qin, we had no enmity in the past and no enmity today, why are you hurting me."

Qin Hao laughed and scolded, "Old Qiao, don't be ignorant of good and evil, I This is to help you. The reason why you divorced Song Qian in the first place was not because you couldn't stand Song Qian's control. Now you have seen that Song Qian used all her efforts to control you on Yingzi. The root of this matter lies with you. , if it weren't for your connivance with Song Qian all these years, would Yingzi have suffered this crime? Are you unjustly accused of taking the blame?"

"What you said is somewhat reasonable, but you know I became shorter when I saw Song Qian. What if I get timid when the time comes?" Qiao Weidong scratched his forehead in depression.

This is true. With Song Qian’s roaring momentum from Hedong, if Qiao Weidong lost the momentum at the beginning, it would be difficult to fight in the future.

"Did you really cheat on me back then?" Qin Hao asked.

Qiao Weidong jumped up when he heard this: "WhoI cheated on my grandson. It was just a joke played by my friends at the time. I got a girl to take a photo of us. Song Qian saw it so damn hard that she didn’t believe it even if I explained it to her. There was nothing I could do about it. We just got divorced, and my current girlfriend, Xiaomeng, I just got to know last year. "

"Then it's over. You obviously didn't cheat. Song Qian has wronged you for so many years. Why are you shorter than her?" Qin Hao said in a gradual manner.

"Yes. Ah, why should I be shorter than her? I didn't cheat." Qiao Weidong straightened his chest unknowingly.

After Qiao Weidong was taken care of, Qin Hao's plan began to be implemented early the next morning.< /p>

After Qiao Yingzi got up and washed up, Song Qian asked her to eat raw sea cucumber again, but Qiao Yingzi just held it in her mouth and spit it out immediately.

"Mom, what does this taste like?" Can you please eat all these dark dishes? It makes me feel sick. ”

When Song Qian thought about yesterday’s balloon release, she felt somewhat apologetic towards her daughter, but she still tried to persuade her, “Yingzi, good boy, these are supplements. Mom managed to get them. You are in the right time now.” The third year of high school requires a lot of brain use and nutrition needs to be kept up. ”

At this moment, the doorbell rang. Qiao Yingzi rolled her eyes and immediately went to open the door.

Qiao Weidong came with various breakfasts, such as fried dough sticks, soy milk, and steamed buns. Everything.

Song Qian was furious when she saw Qiao Weidong, "What are you doing here?"

"I'm here to deliver breakfast to my daughter." Qiao Weidong faced Song bravely. Qian's eyes made him fight for his daughter.

Qiao Yingzi happily took the breakfast from Qiao Weidong's hand and pulled him to sit down.

"Wow. , Dad, the buns here are hard to buy, how did you buy them?”

Under Song Qian’s murderous gaze, Qiao Weidong tried his best to sound calm, “Hey, it’s okay, dad. That is to say, I got up a little early and queued up in front of the store at 5:30. It took me an hour to wait in line, so I would bring it to you as soon as it was hot. ”

Song Qian was furious, pointing at Qiao Weidong and scolding, “Qiao Weidong, why are you so attentive here? I have been making breakfast for my daughter for so many years. I don’t get up at 5:30 in the morning.” And your fried dough sticks are so dirty. Who knows if their oil has been overnighted? What if Yingzi gets a stomachache from eating it? Take it away quickly.”

Qiao Weidong defended, “I’m doing this all legally. If you buy it from a big store, it must be food safe. Besides, my daughter likes to eat this. As a father, I am showing my kindness by buying some breakfast for my daughter. "

"Qiao Weidong, you are deliberately trying to get in trouble with me, aren't you?" Song Qian didn't expect that Qiao Weidong would be so tough today. She felt a little incredible. When she glared at her before, Qiao Weidong immediately gave in. What happened today?

Under the gaze of his daughter, Qiao Weidong puffed up his chest and looked at Song Qian, "I don't mean that, I just want my daughter to have a good meal."

" You mean that I have treated Yingzi badly?" Song Qian is already hereOn the verge of rampage.

Qiao Yingzi saw that the heat should be almost the same as what Qin Hao said, so she smoothed things over.

"Well, stop arguing. Why don't you just eat these that my dad brought today? I bought them all, and it would be a waste not to eat them."

As he said that, he took them She picked up a small steamed bun, but what neither she nor Qiao Weidong expected was that Song Qian actually slapped Qiao Yingzi's hand, and the steamed bun flew away far away.

Qiao Yingzi's eyes turned red immediately. When Qiao Weidong saw a few red marks on his daughter's hands, he became angry and shouted at Song Qian.

"Song Qian, you have gone too far, why did you hit my daughter?"

In fact, Song Qian regretted the move, but when Qiao Weidong shouted at her, her anger surged. Go straight to Qiao Weidong.

"Qiao Weidong, stop pretending to be a good person here. If you really care about your daughter, you won't mess around outside."

This time it touched Qiao Weidong's reverse scale. He almost left the house, and the only condition was that Song Qian was not allowed to tell his daughter about the incident. Although it was false, he didn't want to leave the impression of a scumbag in his daughter's mind.

"Song Qian, let me say it again, that incident was a prank by a friend. Many people were present at the time. I have evidence here."

While the two were arguing, Qiao Yingzi Suddenly he stood up and shouted, "Stop arguing."

As he said that, he rushed out of the room with his schoolbag on his back.

Qiao Weidong glared at Song Qian and said, "Look at the good things you have done."

"Get out of here, I never want to see you again." Song Qian pointed at the door and yelled filial piety.

On the other side, Qiao Yingzi came to school. She was lying weakly on the table during self-study in the morning. Huang Zhitao asked curiously.

"What's wrong, your relatives are here?"

Qiao Yingzi raised her head and glanced at her, then lowered her head again, "Isn't my relative coming at the same time as you?" "I'm hungry."

"I woke up late because I was hungry. Aunt Song didn't prepare breakfast for you." Huang Zhitao asked doubtfully. In her memory, Qiao Yingzi seemed to have three meals a day. Song Qian prepared it, rain or shine.

Qiao Yingzi concealed part of Qin Hao's plan and told what happened at home this morning.

Hearing this, Huang Zhitao praised repeatedly, "Uncle Qiao actually has such an antic side. I thought he was like a mouse meeting a cat when he saw Aunt Song Qian."

Huang Zhitao is actually quite envious of Qiao Yingzi. When she was very young, her parents went to Africa to provide aid and could not come back for several years. If there were not communications from time to time, she would even have to She wondered if her parents had encountered something unexpected in Africa. Her grandparents were afraid that she wouldn't be able to bear it, so they used this statement to comfort her.

After class, Qiao Yingzi hurried to the next class, pulled Qin Hao aside who had just finished morning self-study, and told him the situation.

"Old Qin, what do you think we should do next?" Qiao Yingzi looked at Qin Hao eagerly.

Qin Hao thought for a while, "The next step is up to you."

"Look at me," Qiao Yingzi asked doubtfully.

Qin Hao analyzed, "Your mother's behavior has always been to give you a sweet date with a slap in the face, and then she will definitely give you warmth, and then cry out how difficult it is for her. It depends on your support." I can't stand it anymore."

Qiao Yingzi thought about it and found that she really told Qin Hao that every time Song Qian had an issue with her, she would compensate her, and then the mother and daughter would fall in love again. Reconciled.

As Qin Hao expected, Huang Zhitao ran over soon and said that Song Qian was at the school gate and had come to deliver breakfast to Qiao Yingzi.

"Old Qin, what should I do?" Qiao Yingzi was a little nervous. She was afraid that all her previous efforts would be in vain.

Qin Hao patted her shoulder and comforted her, "Just keep your face expressionless throughout the whole process. Try to be a little impatient, just like you usually have conflicts with Fang Yifan. Just keep her cold and she will naturally There will be pressure."

"Yes." Qiao Yingzi nodded solemnly and clenched her fists. For the sake of her dream, she could only let her mother suffer a little. The worst she could do was wait until she was admitted to Nanjing University. Apologize to her.

Arrived at the gate of the campus, Song Qian said apologetically, "Yingzi, it's your mother's fault today. It's all because of your father. This is the breakfast I made for you again. Pumpkin and millet porridge. It's very delicious." Nutritious."

Qiao Yingzi said with a straight face, "Huang Zhitao has bread there. I've already eaten it."

Qiao Yingzi turned around and left. She didn't dare to look at Song Qian's disappointed eyes.

"Yingzi, Yingzi" Song Qian called several times, but Qiao Yingzi didn't look back, feeling angry and anxious.

"This Qiao Weidong, you are a pest, you will never see your daughter again"

Qiao Yingzi had been hiding under a big tree before she dared to secretly check the door of the school gate. Seeing Song Qian returning disappointed, she secretly breathed a sigh of relief.

On the other side, as soon as Qin Hao arrived in the office, Li Meng said to Qin Hao.

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