Han Jing was startled for a moment, then asked with a smile, "My child, did you decide to get married just because it made your mother happy?"
Jia Erhu shook his head and said, "Of course not. I and I Wen Ruyu really loves each other, and she was planning to get married in the near future."
Han Jing said with a smile, "Today's young people are not like us in the past. They usually get introduced through matchmakers and then get to know each other slowly, at least until they get to know each other. After getting engaged, it was possible to be together secretly, and after getting married, they could live together openly.
It is different now. It is possible to live together after knowing each other for three days, and it is a beautiful name. Trial marriage.
I see that there is no trace of your life in this house. I guess you haven’t known each other for a long time.”
Jia Erhu said with a smile, “You just didn’t. It is said that young people nowadays pay attention to fast pace. It is true that I have not known her for a long time, but it has been almost a month."
If Jia Erhu had grown up with her, as a person. Mother, Han Jing will definitely be like all genius parents, being extremely concerned about her son's marriage and even interfering in it.
But Jia Erhu is different.
He was stolen from him when he was a child, and we don’t know what the environment he lives in, let alone his personality. He can’t even control the eldest son and the youngest son who grew up with Han Jing. She He didn't dare to ask too much, at least he wouldn't interfere with Jia Erhu's decision.
So she smiled reluctantly and said nothing.
"Mom," Jia Erhu saw her worries and worries, held her hands and said, "After I was stolen back then, I was given to my adoptive father and mother. Now they They have all passed away, and I have no relatives there.
You are not only my biological mother, but also my only relative in this world. If you have any thoughts and ideas, you can tell me directly. I will respect your opinions and wishes once you hear it."
Han Jing sighed, "As the saying goes, a tree has many old roots, and a person has many old words. Your brother never likes to talk to me, and he never does. "Listen to me, so"
"Mom," Jia Erhu said, "He is blessed and does not know how to be blessed. He thinks that everything he has should be deserved, unlike me, who has always been rich. Knowing that I am not the biological child of my adoptive parents, I always long for the love of my biological parents.
I know the warmth of maternal love and the greatness of maternal love. As a mother, you should be the only one in the world who truly cares for your children. People who don’t ask for anything in return.”
Jia Erhu’s words made Han Jing burst into tears on the spot.
She leaned on Jia Erhu's shoulder and said, "My child, you are so sensible and capable. I believe in your choices and decisions."
Children who are disciplined by their parents, Ever since I was little, I have longed to break free from the constraints of my parents.
Jia Erhu, who has never lived with his biological parents, longs for this kind of restriction from his parents.
In his view, parents’ restraint on their children is a direct expression of love.
Once upon a time, looking at other people’s kissesThe biological parents chased their children with brooms and beat them, while Jia Erhu felt full of loss.
How he hoped that his biological parents could be like other parents, even if they chased him with sticks, that would be a kind of happiness.
"Mom," Jia Erhu said, "it seems that we have been apart for too long. I am afraid that in your heart, the other two sons are your biological sons. I am still a guest and someone else's child." .
If it were the other two children who made something or a choice that dissatisfied you, you would definitely scold them, but for me, you have some scruples.
I know, you are not very satisfied with Wen Ruyu, are you?"
Han Jing smiled bitterly, "There is nothing dissatisfied, but she seems to be older than you
As the saying goes Well, only the male is allowed to be one year older, and the female is not allowed to be one year older. I just think she is a bit older."
Jia Erhu said with a smile, "Isn't my father from the north? Northerners don't pay attention to women. Junior year, are you holding the gold brick?"
Han Jing asked, "She should be more than three years older than you, right?"
Jia Erhu chuckled, "Mom's eyes are poisonous, she "She's 4 years older than me."
Han Jing said with a smile, "Actually, it's mainly because of the good relationship. It doesn't matter if the boy is older or the girl is older. But my mother is a medical student and knows that women are older than men. When she was young, she was afraid of men. It's better, because older women know how to love men, but not until they are older.
I think you should find someone younger than you, preferably still in high school, or just now. It’s more suitable to go to college.”
Jia Erhu asked, “Besides age, is there anything else you don’t like about Wen Ruyu?”
Han Jing hesitated. He hesitated to speak.
"Mom," Jia Erhu said, "Didn't I tell you? In front of your son, there is no need to have any worries. You can say whatever you think."
Han Jing said, "Xiao Wen is indeed very beautiful, but she seems too mature. She doesn't even look like an older leftover girl.
Don't be angry if I tell you something. I wonder if she lied to you, she must be married."
My God, my mother's eyes are really poisonous
Jia Erhu said, "She is married. She was once married, but divorced not long after. The main reason was that the man was useless and she was still a virgin."
Han Jing sighed, "Son, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Like her, her shortcomings are all advantages in your eyes.
If you really make a choice, your mother will never object, but what she wants to tell you is that women are better than you think. It's much more complicated.
I really hope you find a girl who is relatively simple and has never been in love. Only in that way can you be happy for a lifetime.
You can. Don't get it wrong, don't think that my mother is an old feudal person and has a virgin complex.
My mother is someone who has been through it all. She knows that emotionally.Cheating can bring more misfortune to a family and marriage than physical cheating.
It is generally difficult for women to forget their first love. Many women cheat with their first love. This Xiao Wen actually got married.
I don’t say that she will definitely cheat, but in the future when you live together, she will subconsciously compare you with her ex-husband intentionally or unintentionally. You must not think that you are better than her ex-husband. .
Women are sometimes so strange. They often use the shortcomings of the men around them to compare the advantages of men outside.
Let’s talk about Xiao Wen. I believe you when you say that she loves you desperately now, because now she will only compare your advantages with the shortcomings of her ex-husband.
When you get married, she will compare your shortcomings with the advantages of other men.
If you are in love for the first time, she will only compare you at best, but in the end she will cherish your marriage and relationship.
But for her, she and you are just a half-way couple. When she feels that you are no longer as good as you are now, she will regret it.
I'm not sure whether you cheated or not, but your marriage is definitely not as happy as you imagined. "Please remember to collect, the latest and fastest website without anti-theft, free to find books and add books, you can join the qq group 887805068