It seems that mother not only has opinions about Wen Ruyu, but also completely disagrees with her.
Jia Erhu did not show any displeasure because of this, but said with a smile, "Mom, your opinion is very important to me, I will seriously consider it.
But, I have different ideas from you, can I talk to you calmly?"
Almost all children in the world are unwilling to chat with their parents. On the contrary, what parents all over the world want most is to talk to their parents. Chat with your own children.
Han Jingming knew that Jia Erhu liked Wen Ruyu, so she would definitely not listen to her opinion. If it were her youngest son, he would definitely slap her against the wall if he didn't show his face.
Jia Erhu was actually not impatient, even smiling, and was willing to talk to her about the matter. While she wanted it, she also knew that this son had suffered a lot and had gone through a lot. Only through hardship can you have such patience with yourself.
"Child," Han Jing said, "I am just expressing my opinion. If you insist, I will never object."
Jia Erhu smiled and said, "Mom, you Look at every couple in the world who not only understand each other clearly before getting married, but also swear to each other.
But in recent years, more and more couples are getting divorced. What does this mean?
It can only show that the vast majority of people are constantly changing with the changes in life and environment, and the same is true for couples.
I am not saying that you should only look at the present. Yes, the problem is that we don't have hindsight and can't judge what will happen in the future, so we can only focus on the present.
As for Wen Ruyu, she is indeed older than me and has been married, but other than that. Apart from the two shortcomings, if all the others are advantages, wouldn't it be a pity if I gave up on her?"
Han Jing nodded and said, "What you said makes sense. She has these two shortcomings. Maybe other girls have more hidden shortcomings than she does.
But you are still young after all. Not only have you never been married, you have not even been in a relationship.
< p>No comparison means no harm.You may fall in love with her at first sight, but it does not mean that she is the woman you are destined to be. If you meet her again, she will be better, more perfect, and more suitable for you. Woman, can your marriage still be maintained?
I don’t consider you unilaterally just because you are my son. What I said to you today, I don’t care about you in front of her. Can say, I believe she knows that I am also responsible for her.
One of you has been married before, and the other has never been in love. Your life and emotional experiences are different. Too big. Although they seem to be somewhat complementary, they are definitely incompatible.
I am really not throwing cold water. There is a high probability that your combination will not have a good result.
But again, if you make the final decision, your mother will support you."
Jia Erhu said.Said: "Mom, I don't want you to compromise on my marriage. After all, you are my only relative. I will never marry a daughter-in-law you cannot accept.
Do you think this is good? You live here for a while and have more contact with her. If you feel that she has many shortcomings, not only me but also you, can't live with her, break up with her immediately."
< p>Han Jing was moved by Jia Erhu's words. She never imagined that Jia Erhu was so reasonable and repeatedly emphasized that he respected her feelings."Child," Han Jing touched his head and said, "It is said that the children of poor people will become rich early. It seems that the family of your adoptive father and mother must be very difficult. I believe that no woman in the world can marry you. , will be the happiest.
By the way, what does Xiao Wen do?
“She is a lecturer at Haicheng University”
Han. Jing Yi was startled, "That's a high-level intellectual. How could she like you? My child, I'm not looking down on you. Seeing that you have so many friends in society, I guess you are just like your father.
You and Xiao Wen are probably not the same person."
Seeing that her son's friends are all social people, Han Jing knew that her son must have never read any books, and he must be a social person like his father. Gangsters, fighting and killing all day long.
If Jia Erhu didn't tell her, it would be hard for her to ask. After all, Jia Erhu had earned her a face that she could never even dream of, so she would also care about her son's feelings.
While talking about Wen Ruyu, she tentatively wanted to know how her son came to be and what he had experienced over the years.
Jia Erhu said, "Mom, just as you said, Wen Ruyu and I are not from the same world.
I'm afraid you don't know much about the situation back then. When I was young, my father had been living in Haicheng and had his own family.
But that woman is nothing. She is pregnant with another man's child, but she is jealous that you are pregnant with your father's child. .
Especially when she found out that her father would go out of town every once in a while, so she asked one of her father’s brothers to follow her, and she found you pregnant. ”
Han Jing listened and nodded, "No wonder your father never showed up again. It turned out that his wife found out. I only heard from your eldest brother's father a few years ago that your father has been sentenced to death." , has been dead for more than 20 years.
When I informed the work, only a few people knew about it, but your eldest brother’s father never told me.”
That’s the eldest brother in her mouth. She and Zhao Mengsheng’s son Zhao Hongwei.
Jia Erhu explained, "The reason why dad never visited you was because he had been arrested and had no chance to see you again until he was sentenced to death."
Han Jing sighed, "So, you have never met your father."
Jia Erhu shook his head and said, "When I was stolen by them, my father had already passed away. That woman mainly wanted to take advantage of me." I, to create other men who are related to him.
Unexpectedly, by some strange combination, when they brought me back, I had a high fever and they had conflicts in the hospital, so they gave me to my adoptive parents.
At that time, they just asked my adoptive mother to take care of me. Who knew that when my adoptive mother saw that I was a white and fat boy, she immediately took me away. ”
Han Jing grabbed Jia Erhu’s hand and asked, “How did you find this place, and how did you know these things?”
Jia Erhu thought of herself as a child. He told Han Jing everything about his experience in college, how he came to Haicheng after he was released from prison, how he found out the clues about his identity, and how he got close to Wen Ruyu. Han Jing had been crying because of the injustice her son had suffered since childhood. When she heard that he had killed someone and was imprisoned, Han Jing was trembling all over and was so nervous that her heart almost jumped out.
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