The mother and son were sad for a while, and Han Jing seemed to have come to her senses. She wiped her tears with a handkerchief and asked, "My child, that's not right, Xiao Wen is your sister-in-law."
Jia Erhu said, "Mom, didn't I tell you about the son of my adoptive parents? He is not only cowardly but also selfish. He has never regarded me as his younger brother since he was a child, and he even framed me time and time again."
"Child," Han Jing said, "I won't say anything else. I won't even say that the grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of childbirth. After all, you grew up in Jiajia Village, and everyone knows that Jia Dalong is you. Brother, even if you are not related by blood, your relationship as brothers has been solidified in other people's minds.
And when you came to Haicheng, you lived in their house. I believe them. His friends and colleagues all regard you as his younger brother.
And all your friends must also think that they are your brother and sister-in-law.
You are married to Xiao Wen. , will only make you look down upon, or even cast aside, by the whole society. This has nothing to do with whether you and Jia Dalong are related by blood, or whether he has lost his ability in that area.
Xiao Wen can follow. If he gets divorced, he can marry any other man, but he can never marry you. You can marry any girl, even if you marry a girl in a nightclub, but you can't marry her.
Otherwise. , our whole family will be stabbed in the back.”
These words were not only spoken by mother, Wu Niya also told Jia Erhu.
Jia Erhu insists that he and Jia Dalong are not related by blood, and Wen Ruyu and Jia Dalong are not married. Marrying Wen Ruyu has nothing to do with ethics, and there is no third party interference, but he ignores what people say Awesome.
Some things are unclear or even impossible to explain.
"Child," Han Jing continued, "People tend to only pay attention to superficial phenomena and do not understand the essence of the problem. Moreover, those rumors usually will not be said to your face, but they will affect Your life, especially the life of your descendants.
First of all, others will say that it is against human ethics for you to marry your sister-in-law.
Secondly, even if some people know that you are not brothers. , others will also say that it was Jia Dalong who took you in when Zhan Bing left prison.
Even if he is not your brother, even if it is just a normal relationship, you cannot retaliate and cuckold him.
And his good intentions turned out to be a trap
As for his selfishness and his extremely bad character, in this matter, it can be said that there is a problem. Count one by one, everyone will be on his side."
Jia Erhu smiled and said, "As long as you don't think that way, mom, I don't care even if everyone in the world thinks about me."
Han Jing smiled bitterly and said, "In this aspect, you are like your father and your grandfather. You are domineering from the very core to the very core.
It's a pity that your brother is not like you at all. ,In him, there are more shadows of me worrying about gains and losses.
However, in your opinion, a child is a matter of clear conscience and fearlessness, but if it touches other people’s bottom line, you can’t even imagine the difficulties and difficulties it will bring to your life in the future. of.
Normally, you left us when you were a child. The first minute you saw me, you would ask me what was going on between me and your father.
But you didn’t ask. Even now, when we are talking about you, you haven’t asked.
In your opinion, your father had a wife back then, and I also had a husband. The relationship between your father and me was about cheating between men and women.
To put it bluntly, because I am your mother, you have thought that I am a bad woman, but because of your love for your mother, you would rather give up understanding the facts of the past than uncover my scars. ”
Jia Erhu explained, “What I mean is that the grievances and grievances of the previous generation are the matter of the previous generation, and we as children do not need to interfere.”
Besides, my father has passed away, so it will be useless to ask those things again.
If you want to talk to me, of course I'm happy to listen.
If you don’t want to say it, I don’t need to ask.
Because the matter between you and your father is not important to me. What is important is that you are my mother. What is important is that we can still recognize each other today, and that I can enjoy maternal love, and It allows me to show my filial piety. "
Han Jing burst into tears again.
After she wiped away her tears, she said, "Child, I have three children in total, one is a graduate student, one is an undergraduate, and another It's you who just got out of prison.
But who knew that the person who can understand me the most is you, and you are the one I have never raised for a day. "
"Mom, don't talk about this. None of this is your fault, and I will let the culprits who caused the separation of our mother and son get the punishment they deserve."
Han Jing said, "You can understand me, but in your heart, I am still a bad woman. This is the power of the world, including your understanding of me, just because I am your mother. I will never think that, Things between me and your father are natural, just like the situation between you and Xiao Wen is the same now.
No one cares about how you got together, everyone will only think that you shouldn’t get together
When your father and I were together, you know how to treat your brother and brother How big of an impression does it make? Because they have a mother who is flirtatious and cheating, they will never be able to hold their heads high in front of others for the rest of their lives.
After your eldest brother’s father and I divorced, your eldest brother never looked at me. After your brother was admitted to college, he never came back.
They don’t recognize me as their mother.”
At this point, Han Jing burst into tears again.
Jia Erhu hugged her mother’s shoulders and said, “ Mom, it's okay. Now that you have me, I will let you spend your later years happily. "
Han Jing nodded and said, "I believe it. But what I want to talk about now is the matter between you and Xiao Wen. Take your father and me as an example. I was sent to Changling Township with knowledge in the past. Because I had studied medicine, when I could return to the city, I was directly recruited into the 3478 Arsenal.
Of course, the main reason why I was able to join the factory was because I was in love with your father, and yours. Grandpa was the director of 3478 Arsenal at the time.
Just when your father and I were about to get married, something happened to your grandfather. Now everyone knows that he was Zhao Meng’s father, your eldest brother’s grandfather. , framed your grandfather.
Back then, Zhao Meng’s father was the secretary and your grandfather was the factory director. When the army was transferred to civilian life, your grandfather dealt with people from all walks of life, and during that time, the factory was implemented. Under the long-term responsibility system, Zhao Meng's father felt that his authority was threatened and his power was weakened, so he kept looking for opportunities to bring down your grandfather.
At that time, it was generally fashionable in society to treat guests and give gifts. Things like kickbacks.
Your grandfather is an old revolutionary. He is just for the benefit of the factory and will never do such things.
But the problem is treating guests and giving gifts. Taking kickbacks was a normal thing at the time.
In order to achieve business, your grandfather often treated guests and gave gifts, but he had never taken any kickbacks, but basically everyone under his command had. Kickbacks, it turned out that all the expenses were paid to your grandfather.
There are also some expenses for treating guests and giving gifts. Because your grandfather did not handle it himself, the people below will do it.
If you spend 100 yuan on a meal, they will reimburse you 500 yuan.
If you give someone a 1,000 yuan gift, they will reimburse you 2,000 yuan.
Your grandfather was quite convinced at the time. They had your grandfather's signature on the magic weapon, but they said your grandfather had embezzled and took kickbacks.
There were also some triangular debts that could not be collected, and they also said that your grandfather had embezzled public funds, and as a result, your grandfather was dismissed. "Please remember to collect, the latest and fastest website without anti-theft, free to find books and add books, you can join the qq group 887805068