Tu Yalan sighed, "Through these few days of contact, I have learned that although your personality is not as public as some lesbians, in your restrained subtlety, there is a kind of fortitude hidden in the sea.
You He is a person with strong principles and a view of the overall situation. In this regard, Bai Jieping is not as good as you.
But now that Bai Jieping is the deputy director of the development zone, she still feels that she is overqualified and should be more qualified. There is a bright future.
What I mean is that as long as you enter the official career, your character's appeal and influence are enough to make you fully qualified for a leadership position at the municipal level.
If you didn’t have this innate temperament and ability, I wouldn’t be chatting with you today, and I’m afraid you wouldn’t be able to come to the provincial capital to study, let alone go to the Fourth Nine Cities.”< /p>
Wen Ruyu lowered her head in embarrassment and looked at her toes.
Tu Yalan went on to say, "In this world, a person's ambition is usually greater than his or her ability.
If you have this ability, I think you will have greater success. Ambition, in the past, was just due to the lack of opportunities. Now that you have the opportunity, you let it go to waste. I really don’t know what to say to you."
Wen Ruyu hesitated for a while and said, "Leader Tu. , To tell you the truth, I did have ambitions. Of course, city-level leaders did not dare to hope for it. Even the position of vice principal obtained with your help, I never thought about it at the beginning.
Her ideal is to become the youngest professor at Hainan University like Jia Dalong.
After Jieping became a leader, she felt that I could do it, and I thought I could do it better than her, so she also thought about becoming a school administrator. The leader of the department.
Because of your help, I feel extremely excited and proud, but also a little scared.
I have not completely come out of this state. Now I am asked to study in Sijiu City. After graduation, I may become a city-level leader.
To tell you the truth, I was nervous all day yesterday until Erhu came and we discussed giving up this. After the opportunity, although there is a little regret, it is really a relief, like a heavy burden has been lifted."
Tu Yalan asked, "In other words, giving up this opportunity, in your heart. There are still regrets, but between this opportunity and eventually marrying Jia Erhu, you chose the latter?
Right?"
Wen Ruyu nodded.
"Why?"
Wen Ruyu's cheeks were slightly red and she said nothing.
"As I just said, we are now talking between women and sisters. I hope you can express your true thoughts and reasons openly and honestly."
Wen Ruyu hesitated for a moment. , explained, "To be honest, as a woman, although I have had various ideals and ambitions since I was a child, my ultimate ideal is to be able to marry a satisfying husband, have a well-behaved, obedient and capable husband. Promising children and a family living a happy life.
Whether it is as a vice principal or a city leader, if it does not affect my marriage with Jia Erhu, it will be the icing on the cake and a strong guarantee for our happiness.
Actually, when I came to study in the province this time, I was worried that being too prominent would affect my marriage with Jia Erhu, but I still had a lucky mentality.
After all, there is still a slight gap between school and society. What if no one gossips about what happened between me and him?
But this time it is different.
Before Mr. Zhou planned to help, he had already told Jia Erhu that if I entered the official career, Jia Erhu and I would never be together.
My struggle in career is for a happy marriage and a happy life. If this goal cannot be achieved, what is the value of my struggle in career, even if I succeed?"
p>Tu Yalan nodded, "Although you usually behave very rationally, in the face of big issues of right and wrong, you still reveal the weakness or characteristic of us women, which is that we are too emotional.
I think you should look back and think about it. After you enter the official career, it means that you cannot be with Jia Erhu. As you said, you will not get the happiness you want. Marriage and happy life.
But if you gave up your career and married Jia Erhu, your marriage will be happy and your life will be happy."
Wen Ruyu was stunned for a moment.
Tu Yalan continued He said, "You didn't live happily with Jia Dalong in the past, but now you feel very happy with Jia Erhu, and you are willing to give everything for him.
Even if you don’t have to work, have children at home, and take care of your husband and children, you will have no regrets in this life. That’s because compared to Jia Dalong, Jia Erhu is too good.
And his excellence will last forever.
At the same time, it is difficult for people of his age to find someone better than him. You cannot have a better choice, so he is your best and only choice.
But what about him?"
Wen Ruyu was startled and looked at Tu Yalan with a puzzled face.
Tu Yalan said, "I believe that at present, among the people he can come into contact with, Among women, you are the best, even the most beautiful.
For him, your excellence is that you are not too old, but you can become a lecturer in the university. It can be said that you have an aura of excellence.
If you can become a vice-principal or even a city-level leader, the brightness of your aura will not only increase, but also affect him for a long time, making him always regard you as the one in his heart forever. God.
But if you give up all this and become a housewife, or the boss's wife in his company, the two of you will make daily living together, bumping into each other.
Do you think that the aura that once emanated from you, which was also the most attractive thing to him, will still love you as much as he does now after it is exhausted in your daily chores?"
Wen RuYu thinks so, because she believes that there is a basis of affection between herself and Jia Erhu, and Jia Erhu will never be an ungrateful person.
But before she could answer, Tu Yalan continued, "As the saying goes, a man is nothing but a flower and a woman is nothing but dregs.
Even if living conditions are better now, people have a long lifespan. Okay, this sentence can be changed to "Forty-one flowers for men and forty-year-old dregs for women"
Jia Erhu is six or seven years younger than you. How many years are you left before you turn 40? Having children, raising children, household chores, and even worries caused by the company's operating conditions
It is not difficult to imagine that in a few years, you are likely to become a temperamental woman. A housewife like a shrew, and as the years accelerate, can Jia Erhu still love you as much as now?
Not to mention that as a boss, he will be exposed to all kinds of different people. There are always beautiful young girls around him, and there are also temperamental women from various departments and units who have more or less frequent contact with him.
You think he will still be the same as before. Isn’t it against normal human nature to love you as I do now and never change my heart?
The most terrifying thing is that when he is in his prime, has a successful career, or is even flourishing, you But he gradually aged in his impression, don’t you think how terrible this kind of thing is?” Please remember to collect it, the latest and fastest website without anti-theft, free to find books and add books, you can join the qq group 887805068